2006-08-16 13:01:02 · 29 answers · asked by junior 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im just wondering
2006-08-16 13:11:22 · update #1
The fact that you even hace to ASK that question leads me to believe you are being cheated on. Sorry.
2006-08-16 13:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel? I hate to turn anyone away from their gut instincts, but people are so paranoid now (as they should be most of the time) and insecure that many people would think their partner is cheating on them no matter how things are going in the relationship. As far as the signs, there's nothing to really put down in black and white, just use your reasoning skills as best you can. While you try to figure out if she's cheating on you or not, just make sure not to push her away. It'd be a shame for her not to be cheating on you now, but become uninterested and just plain sour about the relationship because of your suspicions
2006-08-16 20:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately us women can be extremely good at devious ways - I reckon it's much easier for a woman to tell if the guy is cheating. Maybe if she suddenly goes off sex, always 'has a headache' etc. On the other hand, be careful if she's suddenly getting too loving - telling you she loves you all the time, a noticeable difference to what you're used to. Sign of guilt!
2006-08-24 09:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by mousepotato66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking the question you may have subliminally seen the clues...
Get a few drinks down her and then tell her you've been thinking about opening things up sexually and potentially inviting others into your life... if shes cocky and confident with her reply shes out there, if not you may have been wrong.
alternatively you could knock her around a bit. If theres a guy at the door within the hour she's def. got a new boyfriend.
2006-08-23 06:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by Pedal bin Liner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! there is a sense that something isn't quite right, but it doesn't mean they are cheating.
Don't let your insecurity ruin a friendship, girls quite often have mood swings. more so at certain points during the months.
Those girls out there know what I mean, the temperature of their body rises and they feel uncomfortable.
In a few cases they become violent and uncontrollable, but this doesn't mean there is someone else on the scene.
"Daddy Dave"
2006-08-21 18:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by uncle Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be general disinterest all round in being with their partner, especially in the bedroom. The spark and spontaneity can go and the handholding etc Fighting over trivial things, wanting to go out without partner, showing little interest in future planning, seeming bored when with them. Sometimes you can see what you're looking for, or it can be prophetic, in so much that if you believe it you can ease it into becoming reality.
2006-08-24 16:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my friends was worried his girlfriend was cheating on him because she started hanging out with a guy from work to 'study', then she started staying over at his and making up excuses for it, then she started hiding her mobile in her bag when she used to leave it lying around the house, eventually it got so bad she'd tell her boyfriend not to visit some weekends because she was so busy and when he did he accidentally read a flirty messages on her old mobile from the guy. As far as I know she did not confess to cheating but my mate thinks she is doing something for sure.
2006-08-16 20:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they are in general signs. Some people act just as ever, while some people might act different not because they are cheating on you.
I wish they were some clear signs myself, but they ain't. Unless you find your partner hands on or something.
It might sound extreme, but you could try and follow her.
2006-08-23 12:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Insomnia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any odd behaviour!..starts making excuses why not answering your messages !working over time ! arguing alot! picking fault with you !accusing you of cheating on her,trying to turn the attention on you !A gut feeling !ect,ect.
and when theres no trust in a relationship thats the begining of the end. at the end of the day there has to be trust in a relationship for it to stand any chance.
2006-08-23 18:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by ralphthemouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy answer to this question
if you love your partner and trust her, then you will notice if this love and trust isn't being returned 100%
you will notice if your g/f makes constant excuses why she can't keep dates then maybe you should start to think whether there is something wrong
ask her if she feels that the relationship is working, and what she thinks.
bring some "life" into your relationship, maybe she is getting bored, or looking for a change
2006-08-24 02:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋