I have been getting to know someone over the past few weeks and today he said a real disturbing thing to me in response to a general question i asked him. He's not a young kid either, he's a 45 y/o man. I know he was responding to me in a sarcastic way, but still I sit and wonder why he would have responded in the way he did. It wasn't a hurtful response, it was a disturbing one. Should this be a red flag to me or was it just a dumb thing to say. I emailed him and told him how i felt, but i haven't heard from him yet and may not until the morning.
2006-08-16 12:53:20 · 15 answers · asked by pinebarrons1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We haven't met yet, so i mentioned to him in an email that i passed by his work and i saw someone that i thought may be him, so i asked what kind of car did he drive. he responded something like why?? would you pull over the car and rape him? (meaning the man in the car). I just thought that was VERY strange
2006-08-16 13:07:36 · update #1
We reveal our true selves in slips of the tongue. You have just seen his true character. If that disturbs you, I would proceed with caution in this relationship.
2006-08-16 12:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He rather made a extreme errors in judgment and seem on the value he will would desire to pay. there are various sensible people who're effectual in business company, as an occasion, and function little to no genuine reference to genuine associates. Doing dumb issues is regrettably an area of the human situation, and dare I remind what physique area a guy is many times used to "think of" with?
2016-10-02 04:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is what did he say? You left us outdoors on this question. Were you just not satisfied with his response? Was it when are we getting married? Do you want kids? Feel us in on the rest.
2006-08-16 13:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he say? It's kind of hard to give advice when I don't know what was said. If you want you can im or email me and I'll try to help.
2006-08-16 12:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends is there a big age difference if there is it is good u let him kno how u felt about that so wen or if he responds talk 2 him n get it behind u
2006-08-16 12:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by sissie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what the question was and what he answered there may be reason to worry
2006-08-16 12:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the question? Guys tend to not be very tactful and will say just what they think.
2006-08-16 12:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Joe C. Can't help without that info.
2006-08-16 12:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not someone you need to be talking to... if he would even suggest that you would do something like that tells me he's not all there or he's a harmful person
2006-08-17 07:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by babybro35 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they think there losing the battle or there just shy it all depends on the mood
2006-08-16 12:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋