I went to the movie the other night because i wanted a night alone because i was going through a tough time and i saw my girlfriend at the movie with another guy. I asked her who that is she was with. She said that her old friend was up from out of town and wanted to be with him. I knew she was lying because i know the guy, i play football against him. What should i do knowing that i caught her red handed cheating. And is it a sign or my fault that she was cheating on me.
2006-08-16 12:43:21 · 19 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no 4get her you can do better
2006-08-16 12:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault she is cheating on you, so don't let her try and make it seem you did something wrong. She probably just isn't happy and decided to see what else is out there for her. Going to the movies with someone else doesn't necessarily constitute cheating, but it could be a sign of how she will always be, so beware. You're better off without her if she can't even tell you the truth now, just imagine how many other lies you will hear.
2006-08-16 19:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not your fault she was caught cheating. She should have helped you in your time of need and not run into another man's arm. Then she came up with a lame excuse for who the guy was. Once a liar always a liar. You make the decision but I would give her the boot.
2006-08-16 19:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That sucks. If she's lying call her on it, and then don't put up with it. If a girl is cheating, it's not really you're fault, you just came along at the wrong time and she's interested to see what she can get. Do you really want to give her it?
2006-08-16 19:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by KeM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's the one who cheated, you didn't do anything, right?
She's supposed to break up with you before she hangs out with other guys alone. But since she dated another man while she's in your relationship, I think it's time to set her free....... Another difficult task for a person to do.
2006-08-16 19:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault she cheated on you. It's her mistake and probably her loss. And it is a sign: a sign you should get another girlfriend.
2006-08-16 19:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Gothic_Maiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the one who cheated - not you - so don't blame this on yourself.
Tell her she's been caught. If she means that much to you, you need to have open communication (something she's obviously living up to). She doesn't seem worth the time if she's willing to lie and cheat on you.
2006-08-16 19:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not your fault she's a ho. It's a sign that she is untrustworthy and you can probably never trust her again. Dump her as$ and find a real woman.
2006-08-16 19:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should drop this girl like a hot potato. She is a liar and a cheat.
2006-08-16 19:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its her fault if shes cheatin on u. And if shes liein to u I think u should sit and talk about why she cheated on u
2006-08-16 19:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cause if it was she would had been done that along time ago if u think u can forgive her do it but if she keep doing it just 4get it move one and find a wonderful gurl like me...
2006-08-16 19:50:47 · answer #11 · answered by poohbear kiena 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋