if i told you that i loved you, but not only love you, if i told you that all i wanted is for you to be happy. To comfort you when you were sad, i wanted to make you feel secure. and hold you when you cry,
would you go out with me?
i really care for this girl, but apparently i don't come across as this type of guy, but it is really how i am. i am really a fun guy but again i dont come across this way
2006-08-16 12:40:35 · 23 answers · asked by Piano_Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also write piano songs for her that she doesent even know about
2006-08-16 12:42:41 · update #1
omg thats sad(no affense)
um...actualy...thats really sweet...but id b sorta scared and think u were really whimpy. dont do that at 1st. just hang out wit her...show her ur fun 2 b wit...and then ask her out...NOT like that tho. wen u get into ur relationship THEN tell her that...it wont freak her out. TRUST ME its happened 2 me. this guy sayd sumthing similar...and i barely new him...and it was soo weird and i got scared (not like that...like...omg ur so weird) u cant just say that 2 a girl...even if u feel that way, just wait a little
2006-08-16 12:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by hottie_wit_a_bodiii 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you are coming across as really full on and that would make me either freak out or feel suffocated. this is despite the fact that you seem like a nice guy. take it slow at the start because you don't want to scare of off, then when you guys have been going out for a while you can tell her these things. take it slow with her even if your head is full of all these feelings.
2006-08-16 19:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound really sweet but most girls want a guy that they can have a lot of fun with but is a gentleman at the same time. i know i wouldnt want a guy sweet talking me all the time when im with him it just gets boring and old and it can get uncomfortable because you dont know what to say back. myabe your just coming on too strong and she doesnt want to feel suffocated.
2006-08-16 19:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by mj622 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!!! In my eyes you're perfect. a real man. I wish i could get a guy who did all that, except the piano part. I'm really hardcore and more into guitars and drums. Man, why can't i have a guy like you?
2006-08-16 20:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Gothic_Maiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the mushy stuff only works on movies like the notebook...In real life girls don't go out with guys like that...We want a guy that is a bit of a bad boy..Not a girly boy
2006-08-16 19:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might be coming on a little strong. I'd leave off on the piano, and possibly the crying bit.
2006-08-16 19:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by elvenjewl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls are about emotion..guys are about sex...they get more pleasre out of emotion than sex..strange huh? they stilll love sex tho...but most girls are flirts..huge big flirts..and once they know you feel that way about them..theyll quit..like this girl was all over me..she totally digged me..but when i she found out that i liked her like that..she got scared...my point is..you gotta play there game..dont come on to strong....be a flirt..flirting leads to dating......but u cant be like me..and just ask her out ...after flirting..thats a no no..me and her barely talk anymore...why?/ cuz she got bored..cuz she's a flirt..so..what im doing..is backing off.paying her no attention..if she notices and comes back..she likes me ...if she dont ..than she hate me..its that simple best of luck..but if you really truly do love this girl...let her know..when the time is right...ull both know when that is..
2006-08-16 19:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by how many 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont see why they dont think ur a man. i would love it if someone told me that and did that for me. i would date u. i dont know you so i cant tell u why she doesnt like u. these are hard questions to answer. you realize u dont look how u really are then start actin normal. i dont know.
2006-08-16 19:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by christina.gayle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aw i would date u if u wrote a song and id let u comfort me and made me feel secure defiantly
2006-08-16 19:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to this girl's doorstep and sing your song or if you are shy leave a CD in her locker or mailbox.Check to see if she has a boyfriend.
Best of Luck
2006-08-16 19:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Only777 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋