What to do with a woman that does not experience orgasm during vaginal intercourse?

Question

I may have a few ideas, but I'd like to hear some advice, especially from ladies out there who might have had that problem and what worked. And please, guys, no "just pump her hard" advice..

Answer 1

I cannot have an orgasm for the life of me through intercourse but i discovered something way amazing that feels awesome.Go to a sex shop and ask about clit teasers.The vibration will cause this awome feeling that only that toy can do...She will love you because most young woman(under 35) don't know about it. you may want to let her find what is comfortable for her. U place the clit teaser on her clit and with just the right amount of pressure hold it there for about 60sec and she will go wild. Whats really great is you can do this as many times as you like...One thing,it takes some time when you first experiment to find the spot that is right for her...maybe even a few different times,so be patient but trust me...SO WORTH IT>>>

Answer 2

Step up your game and stop watching porn!! Most women don't orgasm during intercourse you fool. So the problem is YOURS not the women who have suffered by having sex with you. Learn about the female anatomy and maybe you just might learn something if you pay attention put any the misconceptions porn has so obviously brainwashed you with, stop being a chicken sh it and APPLY what you've learned.

Because you're so brainwashed by porn and your buddies, who don't know any more than you, you are totally clueless like most men in their mid 20s (you sound like this age range). Take the initiative be a MAN and learn on your own. Take a class read a book that's not PORN or the Kama Sutra. The Kama Sutra is useless to you at this point anyway.
Porn is also the reason why 18- 40 year old men are totally clueless. I'm sure men older than this are clueless too I've just never experienced any.

PS Healthy women who have men who know what they're doing don't need vibrators, sex toys or artificial lubrication.

Answer 3

To start with, there are a number of women that for some unkown reason, experience orgasm. One of the first things I would look into is this. Does she take any medication like for high blood pressure or anything with a beta blocker in it. That will definitely slow down or even stop orgasm. If this not present, then try a prolonged foreplay. Candles and mood music, back rubs, and kissing her all over her body and lingering at those special places. If none of this works then a sex therapist would be in order. Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

A lot of women don't experience orgasm through vaginal intercourse. If I remember correctly from sex ed 2 years ago, the inside of a womans vagina is 80-90% numb..

Focus on her clitoris...or maybe play around and try and find her g-spot

Answer 5

1. You can still have vaginal intercourse and have her orgasm, just a bit more work. Try the doggie-style position while massaging her clitoris...it always works.
2. Oral

Answer 6

Vibrator for her clitoris. Amazing. Have her doggy style, have her use the vibrator on the clit and you do your thing. If she just enjoys, she'll orgasm. Good luck!

P.S. Let her control the vibrator!

Answer 7

you guys should take a trip to the sex toy shop! you may also want to try staying still during sex and letting her do all the moving.

Answer 8

I have the same problem and oral always works for me.

Answer 9

i had a girl friend once was like that,A good lick job and a finger work for her.

Answer 10

play with her clit at the same time. works everytime, or use toys at the same time