I am crushing on this guy Thom i met through my friend Kim (Thom's half sister). The first time we met we all went out dancing. He pulled me out on the dance floor and all. We had a good time. A few weeks later there was a party with people from work and Kim had asked Thom if he wanted to come. He asked her if i would be there. She told him (confused by his question) yes. He shows up and we exchanged glances and smiles all night long. So the next time i went out with Kim (without Thom) she was telling me what she and Thom had done that day. And we had come to why Thom does not have a girlfriend. She said he is very picky and will only date women who are very fit. I said oh and left it at that. As time has gone by other friends have noticed the deep eye contact and the flirting we do with eachother when ever we all go out and tell me that me and thom should just get together and get it over with. The problem, i am a big girl! So i dont get his flirting with me anymore. what do i do?
2006-08-16 12:24:04 · 4 answers · asked by Loner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now, it's time to confront him. Just ask him in a joking way. About his feelings toward you. From there you should be able to tell if he really likes you. Make questionable comments. Find out where you both stand. Or you could just come out and just ask him but kind of girls hold his attention. If he likes you he will say someone like you or hint about your attributes.
2006-08-16 12:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance, if other ppl have pointed out something going on, well u know u're getting the right signals. I'm a dude, and i like it when girls come out make some kind of first move. Everyone sees different things in other ppl, and like different things about them..........he may not see u being a big girl even tho u see it.
2006-08-16 12:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by hegimony1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him. Ask him what game he thinks he's playing. He's either genuiniely attracted to you (which he seems to be) or he's leading you on (in which case he's a ******** and needs to get a life). :-) However the only way to find out is to bite the bullet and ask him. I hope it goes well. And if he turns out to be a jerk, then consider yourself lucky that you found that out early. Good luck!
2006-08-16 12:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore what Kim said! If you feel a connection GO FOR IT!! He wouldn't flirt with you if he wasnt at all interested! Good Luck
2006-08-16 12:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋