Who is more important wife or mother?

Answer 1

It is no doubt both. It is your skill to please both of them without hurting any of them

Answer 2

Mother is more important until you get married, then wife is the #1 female in your life. But that doesn't mean you turn your back on mother.
This sounds like you are having problems choosing between wife and mother? Difficult time in a marriage, especially in the early years. But re-read your wedding vows and you'll see what the answer is.

Answer 3

That depends on who you are, the spouse or the child. Since a grown man or woman should be able to take care of themselves in most situations, and a child cannot, then the Mother is more important. If you are a grown up and you are asking about your wife or your mother, then it had best be your wife if you want to continue to have one.

Answer 4

Important? That's a relative question reliant upon the asker. If you have to ask? It's probably because you're in an argument or discussion about it with someone. For instance, to a husband, the wife is important. Yet on mothers day his mother is important. When they decide to have children, then suddenly both are equally important... you know? However, in this situation, make sure you use great diplomacy in how you handle both your wife and your mother. Give them both equal prominence, and you will live long and prosper.

Answer 5

...A mother is more important if you're just a kid. While a wife would be more important if you're already planning to have a family. Just be reminded to always obey your parents. And never ever cheat if you already have your wife. Anyway, your mother will get useless if she already passed out, while your wife would be irritating if you don't know how to handle your relationship. And worse, she may divorce you. In short, both of them are really really important!

Answer 6

Mother is more important, but at the same time a companion in wife is all the more important.

Answer 7

In my opinion, when you get married you have made your own family and your wife should come first in most cases. But your mother should be very important in your life also. We only have one set of true parents if we are lucky. Even though we get married doesn't mean our parents should be left out of our lives. I am the youngest of my family. I am 45, I have a brother that is 62 and a sister that is 50. Anyway, my Dad passed away in 1993 at the age of 69. After he passed away, everything changed. My brother lives in the same town as I do and as my Mom did. He only came to see our Mom about once every 3 months. I took care of my Mom the last 5 years of her life. She was so heartbroken because of the ways my brother and sister treated her. I would see her cry alot because she couldn't understand what she had done for them to not come and see her. I talked with my brother and sister-in-law and finally got informed that my Mom wasn't their life. They had their own life. Anyway, my Mom passed away in Nov. 2005 and it has been a total nightmare. I found my Mom dead on the floor in her bathroom. But she had just layed down and went to sleep. I have had to go to counseling among other things and am still having a very hard time dealing with it. Always put your Mom right there as being as important as your wife because you will regret it if you don't and something happens to your Mom. As I said, we only have one Mom and when they are gone, your life will change forever. Mine sure has. I am so glad I moved back to be with her and help her the last 5 years of her life. I have no regrets as far as being there for her. Good luck and I will be thinking about you and your situation.

Answer 8

Being a wife and a mother are of equal importance!

Answer 9

ok here's the asnwer....
BOTH. well they r the same person....its jst ppl consinder the woman ina differ.way...suppose the woman has a husband a child n a sister...the sister would call her sister the husband would call her wife..the child would call her mother...but if u hab 2 say whos important then both...the husband takes care of the wife wen shes sick n the wife cooks for for the husband...n they share each others feelings and express luv....the mother gives birth 2 a child and suffers a lot but is also speacial a lot...wid out the mother a child would hab hard time...

Answer 10

I think mother is more important than wife coz mother was there with us since the time of our birth , she knows everything about us ,our likes, dislikes and takes care of it.I don't say that wife is not important but you should give more importance to your mother than to your wife.

Answer 11

Wife.

As a wife, I can tell you it is VERY important for the husband to be on his wife's side. If there is a feud between your wife and your mom, you must stick up for your wife (unless she is being unreasonable). Not doing so could not only make her resent you, but your mother as well. The long-term effects could be awful for you all.

As a mother, it is hard for me to accept that one day my little babies won't need me anymore. Especially my tiny little son... But that is just part of being a mom. Someday, I will have to let go. Mothers of adult children need to respect their kid's partners and back off.

If you are a "mama's boy", you need to snip those apron strings! It is fine to be close with your mother, but never ever let it interfere or alienate your wife.