Like she was "forced" to have sex w/ her ex-husband and was abused when she was a kid. Here's the kicker: She has 3 kids!!! A daughter from one guy and 2 boys from another guy(the same guy). I really think I'm the scapegoat if you will and these are just excuses so I cant touch her!! I don't know what to do or what to feel anymore!? She's 34 and I'm 28! Any advice will be helpful!
2006-08-16 12:14:27 · 14 answers · asked by barbell405 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh gawsh, do u love this woman? if so, i would stand by her and wait until she is ready...but she could also be havin sex with someone else...its sad, but its the truth...she may just be using u. but chances are she really is being careful about who she sleeps with...after three years, why is this becoming an issue, or has it been a recurring issue with you? you really need to think about what you want out of this relationship and if she is worth waiting for...if not, move on.
2006-08-16 12:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by tha gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about her past but it is not fair to you at all..You should move on and just be friend.. sex is the important things in relationship..why do you have to suffer because of other guyss fault.. if she has 1 kid , I would understand..but 3 kids..how many mistake can it be ? I think she just want you for her security..woman at middle age with 3 kids..she need to find someone to depend on and unfortunately ..it is you..
sorry..but I think it is time to go..
2006-08-16 12:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be counseling. Secondly, she needs to be honest with you about whether she is just using you. Hey, she's 34 with 3 kids are you planning on marrying her? That is the major question. Find out what's on her mind. It's been three years what else is hindering her from healing from past occurrences.
2006-08-16 12:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that biaatch she is just using you and she never is gonna give it up you don't supposed to go with single mothers specially if the have mental problems.Move on and star having sex with a hot chick you are waisting your time whither.
2006-08-16 12:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loved he,r you would wait until she is ready, or when you two get married. I've had a boyfriend when I was 19 that I never had sex with. Move on, if all you want is her body.
2006-08-16 12:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by devinshell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be tipping back with her ex on the down low an lost interest with your love.or you just need to spice up you intercourse. try something new an romantic. and if that don't work then buddy you need to move on. because it's always somebody out there who's on your level you feel me?
2006-08-16 12:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by yell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes prolly just using u for something...she hasnt had sex w/ u AT ALL in 3 years of is this just recently?
2006-08-16 12:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by scarlet_bat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to BOUNCE out of that situation....you've "been" with her for 3 years presumably watching her kids...taking them out, and being a boyfriend...the LEAST she could to is give you some AZZ, she's probably holding out because she thinks if she gives it up, you'll bolt...but seriously 3 FUXING YEARS IS WAAAAY TOO LONG...
2006-08-16 12:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by tuffness9999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats is 3 years too long!!!
2006-08-16 12:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋