He's gotten kind of clingy...I don't know if it's just for the sex, or he wants to talk or what...but he calls me two or three times a day..wants to come over every night for an hour if he can! Now, I don't work closely with him...but he's been coming up and talking to me more and more around other people (which is strange because people in our different career fields don't usually hang out). You'd think he'd be a little more discreet! Now he's asking to do things like...mow my lawn...to me, that's just too domesticated to be friends with benefits!
And the really bad part (bad me, yes, I know)...he's married. He has no plan to leave and I don't want him to...but suddenly we went from occassional meeting to constantly he's calling or talking...how do I tell him (nicely) to back off?
2006-08-16 12:09:33 · 10 answers · asked by wheat1304 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well girl i had same issue i slept w a coworker a few times and he was very attatched more then your case to sit at my house till i got home n wait uhhhhh i eventually started pretending i was busy or headache at work and didnt answer his calls and after a weel or two he left me alone now we dont talk but hey its better then it was hahaha good luck ill never do it again
2006-08-16 12:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him you want to just be friends with no benefits. Then start discussing why he becoming so clingy and dependent, whether or not you like it you've steered him away from his wife and hes started drifting towards you time to give him a paddle and help him row back. Above all else gotta end the benefits
2006-08-16 12:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Titanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are such trash to do this with a married man. but to answer your question, tell him that ur no longer interested and if he continues to "bother" you then say u will tell his wife. those standards, I am sure, are not beneath you.
It's only been about a month since u've been screwing this guy and already you are botherd by him....
I am surprised he didn't know from the start that you were a
F**k and go hoe.
Happy hoe-ing you dirty b***h.
2006-08-16 12:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve everything you get for getting involved with a married man. Shame on you, immoral adulteress. I don't feel sorry for you at all. Think about his poor wife. What comes around goes around. One day your husband's going to do the same thing to you. And my heart certainly won't break for you. What an idiot.
2006-08-16 12:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure seems like a good time, to end this situation, it's obvious that he's has gone from being a friend with benefits, to wanting much more.
The way he is acting at work, can also get you both fired.
So tell him to cool it at work, and to end your sexual relationship.
Just be honest with him, he needs to realize, he's crossed the line.
2006-08-16 12:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to chill out and stop returning his calls...unless you think that will make him confront you at work, in that case be very frank with him and tell him that he's taking it too far and that its making you uncomfortable. He should get the point, and if all else fails, threaten to tell him WIFE!!! that should shut it down REAL QUICK!
2006-08-16 12:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by tuffness9999 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You disgusting, tramp, homewrecking, whore with NO morals. Did your mother not teach you to have SELF RESPECT and not to fool around with a married man! Nothing good will come to you.
2006-08-16 12:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by devinshell 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's not being discreet enough and to back off because you think people might be noticing
2006-08-16 12:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Supa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might have to change jobs this why they say never dip your pen in the office ink if you try to get rid of them they trash you to the other co workers or make your work day a living hell
2006-08-16 12:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tel him its over and that you just want to be friends period. dont call him. dont answer his calls
2006-08-16 12:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by Britney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋