iam 27 and i love big girls. so why do my friends make fun of me?
I like this girl she is 300 pounds.
2006-08-16 12:03:48 · 30 answers · asked by yummy_tummyus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your serious, then theres nothing wrong with wanting some cushion for the pushin.
2006-08-16 12:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is someone for everyone. What a boring world it would be if we all like the exact same things. My husband, who is very short, has always liked very tall women, I am 3 inches taller than he is. That's somewhat unusual, as well. If people make fun of you, that is because they do not understand you, and probably have self confidence issues as well. They think the person they care for should say something about them (look at me I'm so cool, I attract really hot girls!), and they fear ridicule. You should be the confident man you are and not allow others to make you feel bad about that.
Just because what YOU think is beautiful may not be what most people think is beautiful, doesn't make it less beautiful. It IS a cliche, but beauty really is in the eyes of the beholder. Be the person you are, and don't let others make you feel inferior.
2006-08-16 12:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bartmooby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not right. big woman need love and caring for. Forget your friends they are jealous of you because you have a good woman.
I'm 29 and my wife weighs 230. I love big beautiful woman. to me they make better lovers. It's not whats on the out side it's whats
on the inside that counts. Tell your friends that, and also tell your friends they should look deeper on the inside and not just whats the out side
2006-08-16 12:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by darrell h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the friends man!!! Fat girls are human beings too, they need to be loved just as much as the next girl. That's what is so wrong with society today! Thats why u have beautiful girls becoming anorexic and looking terrible. If I was attracted to bigger women i would not care what others thought....
2006-08-16 12:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Vince M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because a big women need love too. she can give you shade in the summer an heat in the winter. it's not whats on the out side it's what's on the inside. (each it's own) they are making fun of you now but the one they are with ain't promised to be small all of there life.
2006-08-16 12:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by yell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's wrong for them to make fun of you. Tht's your personality and your feelings, NOT theirs. Just ignore them and get on with ur life. If u feel more happier with big girls then go with them. Don't let ur friends ruin ur life by telling u to marry or go out with a skinny girl. Or you won't be happy cuz u don't like skinny girls u like big girls. Tell ur friends how u feel or something. Just tell them. Then find new friends. Good Luck *hug* (remember it's your feelings NOT theirs.)
2006-08-16 12:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by 2hot4u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your friends are prejudiced, they are conforming to stereotypes and you are not. As sad as it is, people are ignorant, execptions prove the rule. Furthermore, they cannot be your true friends if they make fun of you for your preferences instead of respecting you. After all, they do not have to live with your lady of choice. So if I were you, I would evaluate my "friends", because no true friend would make fun of you and a true friend would respect you and your girlfriend!!!
2006-08-16 12:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are shallow and only base things on looks. being with someone big shouldn't matter. If you like them and are happy, that's all that matters.
take your big girl out and have a good time. forget what others think.
if people did what they wanted instead of letting others dictate what they do, the world would be better off.
2006-08-16 12:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They just dont know what their missing man. If your friends make fun of you over that **** then you need to just drop those people anyways becauce if they were real friends they would support you and not be ***** about it. They arent your friends man. And just for the record... Fat women need love too! And most can really suprise you if you know what i mean! ;)
2006-08-16 12:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by Candy Girl's Man 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it's not. But bear in mind you're not much better than guys who go for the 'hot' or 'skinny' chicks...It's still mostly about how they look. Also, 300 pounds is definitely unhealthy.
2006-08-16 12:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats like asking is it ok for you to make fun of a guy who likes really thin women. People like what they like, thats the beauty of being human, everyone comes in different shapes, sizes and colors. If people don't like it then screw them, just love who you love and be happy, no one can make you happy but you.
2006-08-16 12:08:31 · answer #11 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋