she lies about where she is going, who she goes to lunch with, smokes pot with guys after work, then comes home and is very mean to me
2006-08-16 11:21:05 · 13 answers · asked by Ashleigh C 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Talk with her and tell her how you feel. Let her know that you have lost trust in her because of her lies.
DON'T BELIEVE WHAT SHE TELLS YOU. BELIEVE WHAT SHE DOES TO YOU LONG TERM - she might make you feel good in the short term but if you feel bad long term you might not want to hang around such a person.
You will have to make a decision to either love her and accept the way she is and try to encourage her to change but still put up with it (painful choice No.1 )
OR to reject her, go your own way and tell her to go away unless she shapes up (painful choice No.2)
2006-08-16 11:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that your gf is a cheater...but you shouldn't even waste your time with this chick anymore...if she is smoking pot after work with guys most likely she is hooking up with them to. I know it must hurt a lot to hear this but it is for your own good, you don't want her to take away the rest of your self esteem.
2006-08-16 18:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl are ok with their girlfrends seeing other
men, monogamy isnt the only way to be in the universe,
but you hav to ask urself if its somethin u coud liv with.
as for her bein mean i dont know if its fr
u questionin her a lot?
if u feel ur comfortabl w the whole situation be a loving
person,when she realizes ur a rare man among other men
who are constantly jealous she may start
payin u more attention
2006-08-16 19:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by heartofglass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On And Find Some One Who Really Deserve You..
2006-08-16 18:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I've never gotten why people who are just girlfriend and boyfriend act like they're married. It's not like you took any sacred vow. Break up with her, you don't deserve to be treated like this.
2006-08-16 20:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by tkron31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have a serious talk with her...if she really loves u in first place, she wouldn't be doing that. Move on with your life. no one deserves to be stepped on like that. But i'm sure there is a reason why she is cheating on you. have u done something wrong? u guys need to talk...
good luck
2006-08-16 18:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Shyne_06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she comes home she is mean to you? Maybe she isnt that into you anymore. This her way for you getting a hint.
2006-08-16 18:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by th1gurl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what you need to do it is just that your heart has not excepted what your mind has. She is not worth being with if she is running around on you
2006-08-16 18:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by melindarix@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doin this just leave her man. Unless you tell her to stop and she does Leave her
2006-08-16 18:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her she aint worth it she is a cheater and a drug head
2006-08-20 12:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋