because you did not have money or job or car?
2006-08-16 11:14:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been in a situation like that. I remeber my sophmore year in college and there was this female that liked me. She was really popular. I didn't have a car, I lived with my parents and i was in band, so i thought that i was in for a quick clowning not that i was a geek or anything but i was really nervous. So any way, I was scared to talk to her for a few days but i realized after the 3rd note that she had sent me that she really liked me. So I grew some balls and began talking to her and i told her everything that i felt was a bad thing on my part and believe it or not she was like that won't be a problem because she wasn't looking for a person that was focused on what they had but what they wanted and how they were going about it. So we have been together for 4yrs.
2006-08-16 11:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Balla1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is dont date if you dont have money, car...etc....instead spend your money on getting one. Girls can be expensive. If you dont have money, a girl will date you a couple of times and dump you. The little money you had will be gone. Birds wont find a male to have sex with until she finds one with a big nest in a good neighboorhood that is safe for her children. Women are the same way. No matter what they tell you this is always on the back of their minds. I had a guy once gave me a stuffed animal that was his sister. Latter I confronted him and he admitted it and asked for it back. I could tell he didnt have any money because he wanted to meet me inside a dance club. therefore I had to pay for my way to get in. TRUST ME your wasting any money you have to get dumped unless the girl is a real looser or has mental problems.
2006-08-16 11:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see your reason for that, BUT you can still date someone without any of those. Not having a reliable transportationy will make it difficult, but if she really likes you and you really like her, it won't matter, you two will work it out. Besides, dating is suppose to be getting to know each other and there are plenty of things you can do that doesn't cost much and get to know each other. Go for walks by a beach at the park. Bike riding, go play ball. go for a pic nic.
2006-08-16 11:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but it was not because of money, a car, or a job; it was because i thought I wasnt good enough for him and that I would get attached and then he would find someone better than me and break my heart. I had my heart broken b4 and I dont think I can take that again.
2006-08-16 11:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by cTz FiNeSt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job, get a car, get a date. You have much more to be concerned about if you have none of those things than dating. If you take care of business, you won't be afraid to date anymore.
2006-08-16 11:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not having money or a job bothers YOU, maybe you should focus on these things rather than dating right now.
2006-08-16 11:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but you have to look past that there are ways to have a nice date and not spend more than 10 dollars
2006-08-16 11:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i have my true love and only dated one guy! I got lucky on my 1st and only try! yey! some are just more lucky than others i guess.
2006-08-16 11:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by ms♥ catepillarஐღஐஐღஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that should not matter if you have a car or money
2006-08-16 11:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by crescentmoon93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for those reasons. But yes for other reasons.
2006-08-16 11:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋