I would really appreciate your honest answers on what i should do, and if this girl still likes me?

Question

This girl means the world to me, so please take the time to read, and give me an honest, good answer. Thanks.?
Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.




I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??

Answer 1

well, sounds like ur really into her. I guess... she likes you a lot but she thinks she's too young to get involved or she can't decide on what to do becuz her mind says one thing, but her heart says another. If you wanna win her back you have to do something big. Here are some ideas:
1. Ask if she would like to go on a picnic to hang out. If she says yes try not to show emotion and say "cool." Then have it set up before you arrive. get a balnket with a basket on the side and daisey's in the middle in a vase, no roses, don't wanna be to forward. then eat and chat and ask her on a date towards the end of the picnic.
2. Ask her if she wants to come to a party your throwing. Make sure the party is big and there are ALL your friends there. there needs to be a LOT of people. Then have a d.j., they don't cost much. when a slow song turns on ask her to dance, she will be surprised and say yes. just make sure ur not with her the whole night or stalking her.

If your not as close as u used to be have ur mom ask her mom to hang out together at one of their homes and bring all the kids along. then you two can catch up on things. e-mail eachother and stay in touch!

Answer 2

Don't give up. Keep trying with her. Call her, send her e-mails, write her if u have to but watever u do, don't back off cause someone else will grab her. Ask her out, if she says no, keep trying till she does. Always bear in mind that she's only 13 so this whole idea of a relationship is still quite new to her and as her mum said she's probably scared so that's why u still can't be too hard on her. Explain to her ur feelings, let her know that ur in love with her and u really wanna be with her. Let her know that ur willing to take it as slow as she wants and u'll never pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to. Be firm yet tactful, gentle and understanding but most of all, patient with her and in time, she'll come around.

Answer 3

You want my honest opinion right? Well, I think you should move on. I understand that you really "like her" but it appears that she may not feel the same way about you. You also indicated that it was "rumored" that she was all over not one but two other guys which is not good. Would you like to be in a relationship with someone who's "all over" other guys? But if you want closure for yourself, I suggest you talk to her face to face about what direction you are going in terms of the relationship (if there's one). Find out if she likes you as a boyfriend. This would cut out a lot of guessing and wondering on your part. BUT don't let her take advantage of you or lead you on.

Answer 4

Ok I know the feeling. Try this. I think you should give her some space. Start talking with other girls as friends, maybe go on few dates. This might make her look back your way. If you are to available she might use you to fall back on, but if she sees you have other options, she might get scared of what she can lose.

Answer 5

in case you incredibly without a doubt like her and look after her, supply her a while. i'd basically write her a observe, clarify the way you experience and allow her comprehend which you will decide for to comprehend how she is feeling and what she is questioning , does not rely how undesirable or stable. If it makes you disillusioned, you do no longer care that each and one and all you opt for for is for her to be happy and if being happy isn't with then you definitely so be it. clarify to her which you already know that she would decide for a while to think of and which you're prepared to furnish her that? stable success and need issues artwork out.

Answer 6

Thre are plenty o' fish in the sea man, plus you're like 15 come on....damn those raging hormones...anyway my advice would be go find yourself some other girl in the meantime, if she can't make up her mind after 2 frickin' months then get another girl and see how that works out.

Answer 7

wow honey, this seems like a complicated situation!!! well, u should try talking to her face to face. sit her down and tell her exaclty how u feel about her. if she is worthy of you, she will understand and will see how lucky she is to be loved by someone like you. tell her u need to know how she feels, cuz if she doesnt feel the same, then u dont want to waste ur time. i mean, u shouldnt want to waste ur time on pointless feelings, right? i hope she doesnt hurt u, i know what that feels like and its noooooo good. if u end up having to forget her, it will take a looot of time, but it might just be the best thing if it just wont work out. i hope it does tho. goooood luck!!! :)

Answer 8

wow....you must be frustrated :-(

you need to be yourself, and let her alone till she can make up her mind. Don't obsess about her too much. You have your whole life ahead of you. I know right now it seems like you will like her forever, but you can move on if she doesn't come back.

Be a friend to her and maybe she'll realize what she's missing out on. Please for your own sake, don't burn bridges with her or be bitter if it doesn't work out right away. You'll only hurt yourself.

Good luck

Answer 9

I have to be honest with you here, I have seen alot of questions on here about, " Does he/she like me?" My advice always is, ASK HIM/HER. You can sit around and wonder and pine for her, but the bottom line is, no one on here knows if she likes you, and you won't either unless she tells you. Unless she is just going to come out and tell you, you have to ask her. At least that way you will know. It might hurt if she doesn't, but at least then you can move on, and being 15, you have alot of life ahead of you. There's no reason to waste precious time wondering. Find out, and if she does, great, if not, at least you know.

Answer 10

i know u might want to hear this, but let her be. dont ingore her but give her space. if she is meant for you, she will make the move considering she has in the past,. if you find another girl who likes you more at achool, dont be afaird to take her out. maybe if this girl sees you with other, it might make her think twice about the way she has been treating you.