i dont know in what other category to put this because it has to do with a girl,for the past 2 years or so ive talked to a girl online and overtime i have fallen for her.
ive actually known her since 2002, but we only got in contact again in 2004. basically my life sucks, i dropped out of college and i havent been able to get a job. she barely talks to me anymore because she has work and all these other things in her life and i dont know what to do anymore about the way i feel about her.
some of you may say oh just find some girl and forget about her, but its not that easy for me.... i dont know if she wants to meet me anymore, or at least she keeps changing her mind,i know its easy too because i know its easy to be out working and then not wanna meet someone online... so what should i do about my life and her?
2006-08-16 11:08:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a good long look at yourself. You will attract someone's attention quicker when you are happy with yourself, and doing things for yourself. If she knows you don't get out much and don't have a job, she is probably worried that you are becoming 'needy' and dependent and not willing to take charge of your own life. Get a job, anywhere, it doesn't have to be a high paying job, but at least show that you can take care of yourself. If you can't take care of yourself, how can you contribute to a relationship? Do you want her to support you? Not to be cruel, but honestly women are not attracted to men that go "oh poor me, I can't even get a job at McDonalds, so would you date me?"
2006-08-16 11:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back up here. The order for preparing to be a responsible parent begins with a sound education, discipline in learning, discipline is saving for the future and demonstrating your ability to hold a good job and to take care of a family. The world is full of millions who took shortcuts and in the end, when the responsibility piled up, they ran out on their families. To me, this girl seems very wise. You need to go back to basics. there are night schools and other educational facilities that offer courses on-line. Sorry to tell you this: you are not ready for any responsibility. Start again and out some serious discipline in your life. It would not hurt if you gravitate to some Christian-sponsored or Muslim-sponsored programmes, depending on what part of the world you are.
Boaz.
2006-08-16 18:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Boaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try to go back to school for a few nights a week and maybe start looking into working in a restaurant even if its as a bus boy, atleast until you get back on your feet. She might just want to see you making an improvement on your life before she wants to meet you. Not to sound mean but she might feel that because your life right now is kind of messed up that you aren't right for her.
2006-08-16 18:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by x0xaphr0ditex0x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find yourself first then when youve settled go for it
2006-08-16 18:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by [trapped][in][a][box] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have firm decision.
2006-08-16 18:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SNAP OUT OF IT!!!
2006-08-16 18:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for the 2 points
2006-08-16 18:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋