I have this girl that I am friends with, and she used to be incredibly flirty until I backed off. She thought I was mad, so I said I was not. Now, she is being flirty again, and I get the message! My problem is I want to tell her what I feel. I feel I owe her an explanation for why I backed off, and I would also like to tell her that the door is open for a relationship. I also want to convey to her that she does not need to say anything while I am doing it. She can think about it. Another tricky thing is that we are magnificent friends, and I do not want to mess up the friendship. How can I do this and keep a delicate balance?
2006-08-16 11:00:14 · 4 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her why you backed and tellher that you don't want to do anything to mess up the friendship. She may have the same fears.
You never know what may happen. My husband was my best friend - still is and we are making it work.
2006-08-16 11:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly what you have told us. that you like her and you want her to think about starting a relationship with you. it sounds like she likes you so give it a shot. stop wasting time wondering. good luck
2006-08-16 11:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her she may feel the same way.
2006-08-16 11:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you've told us.
2006-08-16 11:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋