What do I do if we don't have enough time?

Question

I work a fuill time job and so does he. We donn't usally having a problem getting together almost everyday. I just started taking two night classes and my job requires occasional nights and weekends. I'm wondering if less time together will be hard to deal with. I imagine it will be because I can hardly stand being away from him for longer than while I'm at work. I'm not attatched to him, but I know seeing him less will be a problem. WHAT DO I DO? I want to make our time together special and quality. I want to make sure the time we do have is spent wisely and not wasted. HELP!

Answer 1

I agree with starlett. I used to work nights and weekends and the wife worked days. It is stressful but we have been together 11 1/2 years. You and he have to want it to work and work at it to make special time together that you dont get bothered by work interrupting or having to go rush to get to work or other things. Your special time should be your time without having to worry if you are going to be late somewhere else.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Just try to figure out your priorities and work through this together. Maybe some time would be good. If you can "hardly stand being away from him" for such a small time then maybe you need to learn a little independence. In the future you will mostly likely be faced with larger seperation and this could be good "practice" for you.

Hope this helps

Answer 3

Well speaking from experience it is hard. My boyfrind and I just broke up after 3 1/2 years b/c he has school, work, studying, training, and doen't have enough time to take the 30 min drive to my house to see me and still do all he needs to do. We are still freinds, but it is hard.

It can work but you both have to be willing to work for it, unfortunately some are more willing than others. good luck

Answer 4

dont start wat u cant finish