Hi! i have a boyfriend , but i'm starting to not love him the way i used to, but i dont want to break his heart. I want to go out with another boy , but i dont know how to "break up" with him.. will someone out there please give me some advice on how to do that?? i feel really bad and ive been with him for a year and 2 months now...
2006-08-16 10:20:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest and open with him, but let him down gently. Prolonging the relationship doesn't help either of you.
2006-08-16 10:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don;t feel bad and follow your heart no matter who you hurt along the way. It is your life, and life is too short to spend your time with someone you don;t want to be with. Talk to him and tell him how you feel, tell him you don;t think it is a good idea to see each other anymore, as things and feelings have changed. Besides you are soo young to be in such a serous relationship, this boy couldn;t honestly expect you wanted to be with him forever. Make sure you let him know you are doing this for yourself, and that the last thing you want to do is hurt him, but your life is so much more important, and beeing happy in life with your choices is the most important thing to learn. I hope he understandsand doesn;t get too hurt about the situation, Good luck and Take care ! :) I really hope I helped you out even if it was a little bit, just remember you are number one and should always put yourself first
2006-08-16 17:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by bluemoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You're 13! You should not have a boyfriend, but many friends.
2. Since you do have a boyfriend, be honest. Let him know you
want to be open to many friends. You're 13 for goodness
sake.
3. Don't be so quick to be doing grown-up things (boyfriend)
If you live to be 93 and you grow up and do grown-up things now (boyfriend/girlfriend), that gives you 80, I repeat 80 years to be a grownup. Enjoy being 13! Boyfriends at 13 - I think not.
2006-08-16 17:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow it's going to be hard but you have to do it plan a day you guys can go out and talk about it but somewhere where it's only you and him tell him you need to talk abot your relationship with him and that you need to see other people because you guys don't click like you used to and then give him the last kiss you will ever give to him.
im 13 going through the same thing.
p.s. i first went out with this guy when i was 10 and it was hard for me to break up with him i felt so guilty that i did break up with him if you need any advice i suggest you email me at sunset16919@hotmail.com k.
2006-08-16 17:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, that is a really long time for a 13 year old to be in a relationship. you need to be straightforward and honest with him, tell him that the passion and love isnt the same between the two of you and you'd like to see other people. dragging out the relatinship is going to hurt him a lot more. its best to do it in person or over the phone, but if you cant do that, then do it online. email me if you need any other help.
2006-08-16 17:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first about all the things you have done while you have been together and tell him what a great person he has been but then say you are so sorry but you don't think you to were meant to be. But tell him that you hope he finds another really nice girl soon and you are sure he will. This way it is a nice way to tell him. Hope this helps karl
2006-08-16 17:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, ''We need to talk, I just don't feel the way I used to feel about you. It's not that I don't care about you I still care about you alot I just think we should see other people. So do you understand? I'm Sorry.
-Just another 13 year old girl!-
2006-08-16 20:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. If you don't like the boy anymore, then just say "I'm sorry, but this doesn't work out for me anymore. Let's break up." Make sure you're absolutely clear and straightforward.
2006-08-16 17:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that seems really tough. But, I think you need to go with the direct approach....I think you need to invite him to your house or somewhere where you two can be alone...Let him know that you value the relationship you have with him...but you dont feel the same kind of love you once felt before. Let him know, if you still want it, that you still want to be friends. I think, if he really truly loved you, he would value your descion of still wanting to be friends, and wish you the best
2006-08-16 17:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dat Black Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "I'm really sorry, but it just isnt working anymore. I want to break up." Any other questions just email me at georgie_friend09@yahoo.com
I am a 12 year old girl who is always willing to help.
2006-08-16 17:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by Katie PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here r some ways u can do this:
*just domp him
*say that we dont get to c eachother much
*im not fealing it
*make him want to break up with u
*i dont feal somthing special n betwean us anymore
*or just say we nead to c other people for a lil while n we can try it agian later "take a break"
well there is some
2006-08-16 17:28:33 · answer #11 · answered by Blythe t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋