My girlfriend loves someone else. When we broke up she told me she DID love me it's just that she thinks she has no feelings for me anymore. We're still friends. But I still love her and we're apart. I'm in New York and she's in Los Angeles. I want my feelings for her to change. I want my feelings for her to be gone.
2006-08-16 10:17:21 · 24 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it time and it will pass. as time goes on, your feelings will lessen for her. TRUST ME on that ~~ my own life experiences. And when you meet another girl, you'll wonder how you stayed stuck on that one for so long... if it didn't work out, it wasn't meant to be. Be patient with yourself. good luck
2006-08-16 10:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude..if I may call you dude, there are few things in the world that hurt more than bering dumped especially like that. Yet there is still life to live girls to meet and meet some more and more and more...pretty soon your heartbreak might turn into some girl u dated once that taught you that there are better girls than that out there. Take care and I hoped that maybe hepled a little.
2006-08-16 17:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need closure. You can always ask her what the main reason she stopped loving you was/is and from there, deal with that and move onto someone else. You can't help you fall in love with, but you can determine whether or not you wanna stay stuck in a sh!tty place forever or not.
2006-08-16 17:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make thm stop an if she said she aint got feelins 4 u any more but she loves you that is a girls way to say it nicely its over and i dont love you......but my advice get a NEW GIRL TO LOVE there are others you no plus long dis. relattionships barely ever work you both need more so go an get what you ned.....a new girl hope every thing works out =) if you need any thing my yahoo is the same as this name so bye bye
2006-08-16 17:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's great that u 2 r still friends but u have 2 get over her and move on 2 someone new because there's no sense in holding on to something thats already gone.
2006-08-16 17:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by nelly_wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you think abt it the more she comes to your mind. Try to recollect all bad things abt her and be happy that you are not interested anymore with such a kinda gal.Look for some one else meanwhile.Never ever try to talk or think abt the past.
2006-08-16 17:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will when end that chapter of your life. That means no friendship. Why do you want to be friends? You dont even live in the same state! End contact with her and move on.
2006-08-16 17:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, u will forget her, but u should do some effort.
I hate that situations (i've been through kind of that before)
it takes one months and things will be better, but my advice try not to talk to her or speak with her during this month, and I promise u, u will feel better.
I dont have a boyfriend now :)
2006-08-16 17:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by guardianangel555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this would be the point where you date another girl, or hook up with some of your guy buddies and live high on the single life for awhile. face it, you are across the country from eachother and she is ready to move on. you need to also.
2006-08-16 17:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its not like you live next door to her so you dont have to see her all the time. Just try doing things with your friends to keep your mind off her...eventually youll find someone else.
2006-08-16 17:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋