whats the # 1 thing you would look for in a girl, what type of personality, ect. and how should a good girlfriend be like, lately ive failed to be a good girlfriend and i cant figure out how or why.
2006-08-16 10:11:34 · 15 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive tried so hard to be a good girlfriend. i mean i would make time to spend with him and tried so hard to impress him. i showed him intellegence, humor, and that im more different at home than i am at school. hell i even changed the type of music i listened to. i went from good music to forgetting the music that i originally liked to clasic rock like AC/DC, pink floyd, led zepplin ect. i tried everything to impress him. i was there by his side when no one else would be. i did all i could but what did i do wrong?
2006-08-16 10:32:35 · update #1
A "good girlfriend" is genuinely impressed by my intellect, sensitivity and humor and because of that, she shows a genuine desire to be around me as much as reasonably possible.
If you are not impressed, your lack of desire becomes very apparent.
Find somebody that blows you away or keep looking.
2006-08-16 10:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can be is yourself, and attract the type of guy that is attracted to you. (Sorry very boring answer, but true). Be the best YOU that you can be, someone you are proud of...and an inner glow will come out. People, will want to be around you.
Be Honest, Faithful, Caring, Passionate about your goals and interested in others, enjoy yourself and be who you wish to be.
Act like someone you wish to be with ...be that person...that doesn't mean your always the life of the party...follow your inner voice...(damn this is so Oprah..., but its true).
Physically, take good care of yourself...let your body be important to you...no need to obsess, but make sure you look healthy...and allow yourself to feel "hot". Sex appeal is attitude...don't stuff it ...when appropriate, unleash its power. Allow yourself to strut a bit!
2006-08-18 15:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Idiot Savant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's more than one thing if you want something that will last. Personality, attitude, the ability to be honest, communicate, and eventually trust one another.
In my honest opinion a good girlfriend is one who has the above qualities and can be themselves, and isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in.
Hope this helps!
2006-08-16 17:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by shy_one964 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 thing is a nice butt, and arms to match. Arms have to be skinny, yet firm. I'm not talking anorexic here at all. Just not flabby arms, especially in the tricep area. I hate girls with flabby triceps. Obviously, you have to be educated. Most girls these days are, so that shouldn't be a problem. And you are bi, and an occassional threesome, or just let me watch to keep me very horny would be ideal.
2006-08-16 17:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by misterpoopoocaca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately has to have a good personality, thoughtful, there when you need her, caring, at least decent looking, share some of the same interests, and be able to get along with other people...i/e my friends, and have her own friends
2006-08-16 17:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by TheOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a really sweet, caring personality. Also, the girl has to be really nice and fun to hang around with.
2006-08-16 17:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, be true to yourself and everything else will fall in place. Don't act the way you think someone else wants you to act, you'll just start hating yourself.
2006-08-16 17:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, it's him. If he doesn't seem to get you, then maybe it's time to move onto someone who will appreciate you. Good luck.
2006-08-16 17:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by ajy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be no taller that four feet tall and her father must own a liquor store.
2006-08-16 17:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONVERSATION god i cant tell you how many girls cant even freakin talk
no one word anwsers, seriously oh and they have to want to dance, even if theyre not good at it
2006-08-16 17:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋