i like this boy and he likes me and i want to ask him out and im am to shy to ask him out wht do i do????
2006-08-16 10:07:36 · 5 answers · asked by dog_see_bye 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you build up some confidence and ask him out
girls this isnt the 50s anymore, if u want a guy let him know.
2006-08-16 10:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always Talk to Strangers
By David Wygant
From his new book, "Always Talk to Strangers: 3 Simple Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life"
The introvert myth
Introverted people develop shyness from an early age -- it's every bit as much of their personality to keep to themselves as it is for an extrovert to be the life of the party. Introverts are non-aggressive in most areas of their lives, not just when it comes to dating.
Unfortunately, most introverts, because of their shyness, become wallflowers. In the world of dating, this translates into their taking what they can get. Rarely, if ever, would an introvert see someone they were interested in and approach that person. Instead, they stand around like magnets, hoping that someone will be attracted to them and make the first move. They're condemned to a self-imposed prison where they wait around and simply hope that they get a great cellmate.
Being introverted is a crutch that timid people rely on to stay within their safety zones. "I can't approach people. I'm too shy," they say. It's a myth that introverts can't be more proactive in their quest to find dates or love.
To introverts, the very thought of approaching a new person is anxiety provoking. What introverts don't realize is that it doesn't have to be that way. Just because you've had problems meeting people in the past doesn't mean you won't have new opportunities. One of the reasons you may feel so much anxiety is that no one ever taught you how to approach people in a creative, non-aggressive way.
Just by learning how to nonchalantly start a conversation with another person of the opposite sex, you will feel more comfortable. Shyness is no longer an excuse to passively wait around!
Don't buy into the myths that say that love will fall into your lap, that there's only one person out there for you, that men should always make the first move, or that you're too shy to meet anyone. Instead, rid your mind of them, and if they start to creep back, keep pushing them down. Why be a passive waiter and condemn yourself to a life of missed opportunities? You do the selecting. Love will happen when you least expect it, but don't expect love to just happen. Give it a push.
2006-08-16 10:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. It's worth the risk.
2006-08-16 10:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by ajy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be shy. ask him out.
2006-08-16 10:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Thor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there is will there is the way!
2006-08-16 10:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋