This girl means the world to me, so please take the time to read, and give me an honest, good answer. Thanks.?
Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
2006-08-16 10:06:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 16:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you really truely like her and care for her, give her some time. I would just write her a note, explain how you feel and let her know that you would like to know how she is feeling and what she is thinking , doesn't matter how bad or good. If it makes you upset, you don't care that all you want is for her to be happy and if being happy isn't with you then so be it. Explain to her that you realize that she may need some time to think and that you are willing to give her that?
Good luck and hope things work out.
2006-08-16 11:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer supply up. shop attempting along with her. call her, deliver her e-mails, write her if u would desire to yet watever u do, do no longer returned off reason somebody else will grab her. Ask her out, if she says no, shop attempting till ultimately she does. continuously keep in mind that she's only 13 so this entire concept of a relationship continues to be particularly new to her and as her mum stated she's in all probability scared so because it is why u nevertheless can't be too no longer common on her. clarify to her ur thoughts, enable her comprehend that ur in love along with her and u rather wanna be along with her. enable her comprehend that ur prepared to take it as slow as she needs and u'll on no account rigidity her into doing something she does not decide to. Be employer yet tactful, gentle and awareness yet maximum of all, affected person along with her and in time, she'll come around.
2016-10-02 04:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fuggetta about it! Its just one girl in the world...if its meant to be she will be back...TRANCEND, TRANCEND, TRANCEND. Evolve and never give up!
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2006-08-16 11:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋