I like this guy,Kahner, but he has a girlfriend right now named Ashlen. He is really hot, (actually he's not, but I think so), and makes me laugh, we went out in first grade, we're really close, he knows I like him, he likes me, and I have liked him for six years. His girlfriend lives 69 miles out of Denver, CO, but is going to school where I live this year (Kahner, Ashlen,and I are in seventh grade). He doesn't really like her, but he doesn't want to dump her either. I don't know if I should try to break them up or just leave them alone (I want Kahner for myself, but I wouldn't want anyone to come between us if we were going out, so why do it to someone else). What do I do?? HELP!?
2006-08-16 09:58:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has a girlfriend right now, you should respect that and see how things go between the two of them. If things don't work out and they break up, then you can make your move.
2006-08-16 10:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel first off dont try and break thme up justletit happen and then you keep trying and if really does like then hell break up with ashlen and go out with you just dont stop feeling how you do unless you really mean it but if not keep your feelings and just let life happen if it doesnt work out then maybe he isnt the right guy for you and you then just need to move on
2006-08-16 10:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by *unknown* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely would not break them up. no matter what, this girl didn't do anything to you. if this kahner isn't strong enough to break up with this girl on his own, i would say that this is an indication of how he really feels about you. If he was that interested in you, and he was dating someone he felt so so about, what would stop him from breaking up with her? (especially if she doesn't live that close) You two might be good friends, but it sounds like he doesn't really know what he wants. I know it seems upsetting, but when you are with someone and it is right, there won't be obstacles, like other girls, in the way. good luck!
2006-08-16 10:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Nik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey-first of all you should NOT go for a guy that is already taken and if you try to break them up, who says that that won't happen to you?
Be friends with him. there are other guys out there! Try to focus more also on school rather than your love life!
there is an old corny saying:
Let the chips fall where they lay!!
2006-08-16 10:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am in The 7th grade i would not break them up if u do she might try 2 break yall up so don't do it go 4 a nother guy u like and try it out
2006-08-16 10:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by bugsbunny9552006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to make this seem like it is petty, which I know it isnt, but you're only in 7th grade right now. I'm sure his current relationship will not last. You should wait until he is available and then make your move.
2006-08-16 10:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends. If he decides to end his other relationship and go out with you down the line, great. But if you break them up to have him up you can't expect to be treated any better in your relationship. Integrity.
2006-08-16 10:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his relationship isn't great, it won't last. He has to decide to break up himself and not hold you responsible for it. Wait it out, but stay in touch with him so he knows you are there and you care.
2006-08-16 10:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Kahner hasn't become your boyfriend after 6 years of liking each other, why would you think that would happen now if you somehow engineered it? Just cool it.
2006-08-16 10:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is taken, until he is free, stay away.. you will have may yrs to really find out what love is. you 'll change many times in the years ahead..
if it is meant to be, it will happen. you cant make someone love you if they dont
2006-08-24 07:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋