Should a person be concerned in relationship if the man does not want to actually sleep with her do to the fear a having an unplanned pregnancy? He is willing to do anything else but actually have sex. Should this raise any suspicions in the relationship or should I respect his wishes for not wanting to become a father without planning for it.
2006-08-16 09:53:42 · 5 answers · asked by tiggers123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all is he a virgin? do u really really want sex? is he planning to marry u?? And has he ever heard of CONDOMS ??????? to prevent pregnancy ?? maybe he already has a kid and he's hiding it. Don't force him. when he makes love to you im sure you want it because he desires u but if both of u arent virgins and sex is not a problem use a condom , he needs to stop making excuses if he really wants to be with you. I used to say that when i didnt wanna have sex with this guy that i didnt wanna end up pregnant and it was true but i also didnt wanna sleep with him so ask him to be honest .
2006-08-16 09:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by sourgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he hears if he has sex and there is an unplanned pregnancy he may fear he's not going to be a good father he may think he will mess up the child's life. i'm just guessing because i'm 13 years old.
2006-08-16 17:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by image of the invisible 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i were you , i would only suspect the relationship,bcos if someone not wanting to become father without planning can still have sex with condoms.
2006-08-16 17:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't be concerned. He is being safe and that is the most important thing. Be safe!!!!!!!!!!!!! no unplanned babies....and of course there are condoms and other birth control methods.
2006-08-16 17:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by katz26911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN R STUPID
2006-08-16 16:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋