what's do i do:(????

Question

My best friend works really hard and he finally got a chance to go holidaying to a beach resort.
When he was out partying i asked him if he missed me...at first he said yes,.....and when i told him that i didnt believe him ...he said ofcourse iam having fun.That hurt.
anyway moving on....i learnt that he met two gorgeous french girls there and for some reason his hanging out with them made me madly insanely jealous. if u would have read my previous questions you would have understood that iam in love with my best friend.
Help help help. Thats all I can say. What do i do? i think i screwed it up further when i sent him weird sms . AAAA. I know iam doing the craziest things.But i cant seem to stop. What do i do?
How do i get him to notice me ????did i mention that this is all long distance as he works in another state. I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH....WHAT CAN I DO?

Answer 1

let him know before its too late!!!!!

Answer 2

Give up on him. He's your friend. Look for romance in the people answering these questions. You know, someone like me.

If you really really want him to know just tell him. Talk to him about some of the great times you guys have had together and let him know that you are also interested in him in a romantic way. It won't scare him off from being your friend. He may tell you that he doesn't feel the same way, but if you guys are as good of friends as you say you are, then you should be able to put it behind you and continue to be friends. He may wind up telling you that he feels the same way that you do.

Answer 3

Maybe you can start by telling him how you feel. Maybe he doesn't think that you like him, or doesn't know it, but he surely won't know if you don't tell him. Chances are he has an inkling about it. Anyhow, it might be good to tell him why you have been acting strange and jealous etc. Hey, maybe he is in love with you too, after all he is your best friend. Just calm down, tell him how you feel and see how he responds.

Answer 4

Does he know how you feel? I mean have you said I LOVE YOU!
You need to find out where his head Is at. And stop being a psycho chick. Nothing chases a guy away quicker than a person who will not let him have a life. everyone needs trust. That means leaving him alone sometimes. Good luck. b

Answer 5

Wow. Weird. I've got the exact same problem. My best friend is liked by a lot of girls in last year's class - including me! I just ignored it and kept being friendly to him, even when I was embarassed. That's the best you can do. Then you still have a chance - he may notice you yet.

Answer 6

Calm down and take a deep breathe. Just be honest with him about how you feel and talk to him and not at him. Men hate to be talked at like a child. If he is as good a friend as you say then he will listen and he will respond in a respectful manner but stop all these childish games because men also hate for women to play games with them just be to the point but be respectful and be aware that he may turn you down because of your games that you have been playing but take it like a woman and continue to be his friend if that happens.

Answer 7

Your going to keep feeling hurt because he is goin to keep doing what hes doing if you don't tell him how you feel. It may not be that he feels the same about you, so you should find that out before you keep doing things that weird him out and make you look like some sort of creepy girl. TALK TO HIM, DIRECTLY TO HIM.

Answer 8

Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way, there's nothing you can do about it. If he's a great friend, you'll just have to decide on whether or not what you THINK you're feeling is worth risking that friendship over. Good-Luck!

Answer 9

i say make urself more noticeable to him by doing things that wud make him jealous and stuff which he wudn't like u 2 do. try to get on his nerves a bit. OR u cud just tell him directly that u LUV HIM. i always believed that no boy or girl cud become really good friends coz love always comes in between.

Answer 10

It's okay to be a little jealous. My bf went to the beach and had a sexual relationship for the week . I was jealous cuz it wasn't me he was having all that fun with. But they were just happy memories and he came home to me. We were married 17 years.

Answer 11

Hey m der again...ok temme something..are u sure that sure that he doesnt love u...?? if not then u gotto be sure first..so madam lawyer take a deep breath the next time you talk to him and relax your mind and just speak out everything u ever wanted to.. and if u cant lemme do the honour for u..lol...m serious i know u can tell him..dont hurt urself by not expressing your feelings..worst to worst even if he doesnt feel the same for u, still u will feel better than wat u feelin now. [take help from a good love advisor mabe me ;) ]..joking...plz do it..