I have friend who talented, she is separated from her husband, but instead of making her life in a right track, she is doing the wrong thing. She having a relationship to a married man, then she changes again to another man also married. It's really hurting me because she doesn't accept any advice. As I notice she did more worst thing when you do give a word.
2006-08-16 09:46:51 · 14 answers · asked by Maryjho 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
stupid and selfish.....a word of advice you can't save her from herself all the things she does whether good or bad will come back to her...it happens to us all.
2006-08-16 09:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your friend is a self destructive sociopath.
i knew someone like her, all she did was stuff that would ruin her life.
the problem is this: even if you do it gently and lovingly, telling her will just make her do even more destructive things.
so~i think your choices are these... either stay by her side like a true friend (&, i'm sorry, a sucker) and silently watch her spiral farther and farther down & out of control,
OR
save yourself while you can!!! get out; run for the nearest exit, and don't look back!
your friend is an ADULT and knows there are consequences to her actions... you cannot let this person ruin your life; what she does to her own, is not on you. all you can do is hope that she gets her act together.
pray for her.
let it go.
2006-08-16 17:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by breezy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfish and Destructive. Not to mention a extremely worthless woman, self respecting women do not date married men. Forget the advice, you need to accept the fact that she is who she is and make a choice if you want a friendship with someone like that.
2006-08-16 16:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is on a frantic search for happiness and is looking in all the wrong places! People with destructive behaviors have some deep rooted problems. It might help if she talked to someone about her issues.
2006-08-16 16:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is this hurting you, was it your husband she had a relationship with? You're wasting valuable energy being so judgmental of your "friend." Why not focus on your own life, and if your friend wants your advice I'm sure she'll ask for it.
2006-08-16 16:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why must you feel it is your purpose in life to say what is wrong or right?
You are not responsible for your friend.
Only to yourself.
When we allow others to make their lives, we open our own lives up for our best foot forward.
Let you friend do as she does, and concentrate on your own problems.
Here is a start, why do you feel the need to run anothers moral standards?
Back off!!
2006-08-16 16:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Honesty is the best policy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's her life, she has to live it. If you don't approve of what she is doing with her life, you can tell her, but then you have to just let go of the issue....it isn't your problem, it's hers. She may not even see it as a problem. Regardless of what you think of what she does, you need to butt out and let her live her life and take the consequences of her actions herself.
2006-08-16 16:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mid-life crisis.
2006-08-16 16:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
self destructive.. and I would distance myself. there's bound to be consequences
2006-08-16 16:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by waiting4myredemption 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, I speak several dialects of English, including Jive, but I'm unfamiliar with the dialect you speak. Could you please tell me where you're from,...so I can avoid ever going there.
2006-08-16 16:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋