When is it too early?

Question

Ive been with my bf for two months about and i really wanna tell him that i love him but i dont want to rush it, or anything. were going to a concert saturday and i want to tell him then because its at a fair, but im kinda nervous to say it first. when is too early to say i love you- and do i just wait for him to say it?

Answer 1

Just wait until you feel that it's the right moment to tell him. If you push it, it'll mess everything up. As stupid as that sounds, it's true.

Answer 2

Just to let you know there is no right time to say it. I would say it depend do you really know that you love him. I don't want to sound rude or anything, but is he your first boyfriend. Here is a good way to depict love. "love is a feeling you feel when you are feeling a feeling that you have never felt before" Love is tender kind peacful, As i have gotten older i have realized the difference between love and lust and infatuation. If he is your first boyfriend or your first lover this is what you might be feeling. Love is something that lasts a life time.

Answer 3

well, be careful and try not to rush it. I love you, I believe are 3 of the strongest words you can ever say. I also do not think it is something that should be said lightly or if you do not mean it. It is a decision you will have to make yourself. Do keep in mind if you can see yourself with that person for the rest of your life, through thick and thin, then maybe its not too early for the two of you...hope I could help! good luck

Answer 4

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Answer 5

It's not too early. If you don't say it soon, it will become very awkward later on. Start by telling him the things you like about him, and finish with "and that's why i think I love you." Smile quickly, and if he's silent for more than ten seconds, just change the subject by saying, "OK, enough of the heavy stuff, let's go have some fun."

Answer 6

Wait, depending on your ages and circumstances two months seems too quick. If it's meant to be it will be and nothing can spoil it. If you tell him now and there's something in his past he's not yet told you (because he might be nervous too) you might scare the hell out of him and he'll do a runner. Good Luck.

Answer 7

If you are thinking about it then it's not to early. Good for you that you are willing to take a chance to tell someone that you love them. We need more of that in the world, don't you think?

When the time is right Saturday you will know because it will spill right out of your heart.

I wish you much happiness and joy!

Answer 8

you could just grab him at the fair and say something like " i love being with you-we have fun" -that way you are not really coming out and saying " i love you"-and you could also see what his reaction will be-sounds like you are young-so you should be having fun, and enjoying life-dont make it too easy by, being the one to shout it out-there are other ways of seeing if he care's for you-take it easy-and slow down, and enjoy each day one at a time.
if he cares for you as well-he will probably tell you that he is having a great time too..
good luck

Answer 9

I would wait for him to say it first. because you could get your feelings hurt if he doesn't feel the same way or you could scare him off! Guys get a little nervous if they hear the word LOVE a little too soon!

Answer 10

Well, I was never the first to say it in a relationship. Then again I never felt that way about someone until way after they tell me. I think my husband still initiates the I love you's.

Answer 11

Two months is way early to say it. Wait until he says it or at least wait a bit longer before you say it.