hi, I just got out of a relationship and I really loved this guy named tim, he meant so much to me, and there is not anything I would have not done for him. But then he wanted to have sex with me. And I asked him if he loved me and he said yes, so I was stupid and had sex with him, then afterwards he told me he could not say he loved me that we were not far enough into the realtionship where he felt that way. Then later he broke up with me.
I still love him, and I'm considering giving him another chance, what should I do?
2006-08-16 09:38:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way. Listen, I'm a guy & used to be a real pri**, he only wants another smack
2006-08-16 09:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Auggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first gauge if he wants to give u another try, basically cause we as guys and u sounds young are prone to hate the word love, or like and use it a lot to get sex from you... lol which makes me laugh cause you were in a short lived relationship(rebound) with a good friend of yours which is basically textbook for him cause he finally got what he wanted all those years from you... assuming yall knew each other for an extended amount of time
2006-08-16 09:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you got played like you did but there is a saying that goes: Fool me once shame on you but fool me twice shame on me and that is simply saying don't be a fool twice. This guy clearly doesn't love you nor does he want anything close to a relationship with you. Take this experience as a learning process and don't be so quick to fall for a guy who preys on your innocents just to have sex with you and then throw you to the curb. I pray that it works out for you but don't go back go ahead with your life.
2006-08-16 09:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt love u now when u were together, what makes u think hes gonna love u now..... after he got what he wanted... lucky he didnt got u pregnant. men like that u dont give second chances unless they seriously deserves it..... find another man who would respect you and wouldnt use you. of course u cant look on some and say he wont use you. but u got to try some where and some how. and dont lose ur trust for men.
2006-08-16 09:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by beautyprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel you need to give him a second chance then you need to sit down and set some ground rules for the relationship before hand!
2006-08-16 09:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should develop some common sense. He lied to get in your pants, that is the only interest he has in you. If thats what you call love then yeah go for it. If you want something that is actually love then leave this jerk in the dust and find someone else.
2006-08-16 09:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say look deeper into him this time and consider b4 taking ur relationship to a high point like last time.just give the 2nd chance as a test to see if he really loves u.
2006-08-16 09:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister he just used and what to continue to use you for sex. If he respected you he would of never said what he did, But I have a feeling your going to take him back and he'll continue to have sex with you and crap all over you at the same time.
2006-08-16 09:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he was just using you he got the pu**y then he dumped you. You r probably young and fell for a cute guy who was nice 2 u. Get smart.
2006-08-16 09:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted and walked away. Everyone deserves a second chance, but be careful, if he hurts you again it will be your fault for letting him do it.
2006-08-16 09:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋