This girl means the world to me, so please take the time to read, and give me an honest, good answer. Thanks.?

Question

Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.




I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??

Answer 1

show this to her!
anyways, i can understand how u feel for her.
but your only 15.. and i can also imagine how u will change within a couple of months or years and leave her!!

Answer 2

You are in for a lot of pain if you are only 15 and you are making this big of a deal over a 13 year old girl. You will probably have alot more girls in your lifetime. If she wants to be with you let her decide and come to you, if you push the issue it just turns her off more and you become a pain. Don't pass up an opportunity with anyone else just because of her.

Answer 3

Sweetie, what you should do is be totally honest with that girl. Call her and tell her you like her and that you want the opportunity to hang around with her again. If she says yes, that is great, if she says no, sorry, but at least you will know where you are standing on with her. There is no tricks or magic ways to make her like you, maybe to get your attention, but not for long. So the best thing is to ask want you want to know in a open and honest way.

Answer 4

It sounds like u really LOVE this girl or its just a deep attraction but I'll call it LOVE...

U should talk 2 her in private and confront each other with ur feelings..if she just wanna be friends, accept it...

there are other girls out there....ones who'll love u 4EVER!!

just wait 4 the ryt one :)

OR maybe she IS scared for other people 2 talk about u guys or she's trying 2 make u jealous..

just talk 2 her :)

Answer 5

I know that you probably won't like this answer, but the answer is nothing. Just be yourself. If she really did like you, like you say she did, she will realize what she is missing and come back to you.

If she doesn't, then you have to move on. There are a lot of girls out there....she may just get jealous of that and come running back.

Answer 6

Dude...if this is how you are handling a 13 yr. old little girl you are in for a world of hurt in the real world. First off....she's too young for you...date girls your own age. Secondly....a girl that cannot choose between you and two other guys is going to grow up a fickle hor....get her off your mind now and stop acting like a puss. You sound like a totally whipped little puss puppy dog and you are only 15....GET OVER IT. SORRY TO BE SO HARSH HERE BUT YOU REALLY SHOULD GO BACK AND REREAD WHAT YOU WROTE AND REALIZE HOW DEPARATE AND WUSSY LIKE YOU ARE SOUNDING....KNOCK IT OFF AND GO FIND SOME GIRLS TO DATE...YOU'RE YOUNG....IT'S THE LITTLE HORS LOSS.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

well first off wow she's only 13 wait until she gets done with puberty, At this stage she will change her mind and get so moody. I suggest to not date little girls, You will move one and when your ready you will meet just the right girl that you can have a serious relationship with. Plus do you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?

Answer 9

She is only 13 ...she doesn't know what she wants...and you are both what is called "jailbait" so I would give her some time...Maybe she will come around but don't expect anything ...She is just a child as you are....Give yourself a few years and you will find someone who will give herself to just you..Patience would be what you need right now
She is having fun and is too young to even think about a relationship

Answer 10

u seem sweet. i was 13 when i fell n love with my x who was 15. now im 14 and i wanted to do anythign to get him back. i tried everything. i found out that it just wasnt right. if he loved me as much as i loved him and he said so, we would be together, but nope, apparently it wasnt like that. i still love him more than any other person, but i want to let go. anyways, to answer ur question...

to get her back?
idk how u r going to do that. i bet it will be easier than trying to get my x back for me. best of luck. who knows...u might marry her someday.

Answer 11

i've been in situations like this many times before, if you really love her don't gie up and don't let her pass you by that fast....maybe she jus' forgot what it felt like to have those talks with you ...you should jus' call her up one night and jus' tell her how you really feel jus' pour your heart to her and ask her if she ever felt that way about you before....i'm only 15 too and i'm in the same situation with this boy that i always useto talk to but he also went to a camp and he started falling for someone else and we stopped talking for a long time...yo should jus' call her unexpectingly and let her know how you really feel and if she backs off you two weren't meant to be....