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Why do guys think they need so many female friends and what's up with flirting? Do you really flirt with someone that's just suppose to be your friend? Please explain that for me because I don't get it. I think it's rude and disrespectful to the person your with to flirt with someone that's just a friend especially if your in the same room with your boyfriend. Flirting on the phone and text flirting is no different to me so why do you do it? Sure you might think it's innocent and you let the persons know that is innocent but what about that one person that would one day take it seriously?What then? My boyfriend laughs at me when I tell him about what he's doing? Although it may be innocent, it still has me a bit insecure because if that is the type of thing your doing with someone who's supposed to be your friend, then you can do alot more. Yes I have to trust him but shouldn't there be a limit?

2006-08-16 09:32:25 · 15 answers · asked by diana 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Guys are dumb sometimes. Just start doing the same thing to him.

2006-08-16 09:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by misstrell504 3 · 0 0

If a woman has male friends, men will say "Yeah, you might think you're just friends, but he's a guy and he wants to sleep with you." A lot of times men speak the truth and women don't listen.

If he's got a bunch of other women hanging about, texting, calling, etc... it's probably more than just flirting. You'd be surprised how many women have self-esteem that is low enough to cause them to continue playing the "just friends" role when they know darn well they're little better than the occasional booty call.

If the current situation is one that you find intolerable, say so! If he doesn't want to act like a real man and send these "ladies" packing, then you've got a choice to make. Stick around, which puts you on the same level as the others or go out and find a real relationship. Don't settle, ever, or you'll find yourself constantly fighting these sorts of battles. Good luck!

2006-08-16 09:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0 0

Just the same way girls have a lot of male friends, guys do to. Ain't nothing wrong with that. And who cares if ur just flirting with that friend. Obviously it bothers you so if that's ur friend u should have no problem saying something.

Hey I do that to with one of my boyz. And he lives with his girl. But there should be a limit, if something bothers u than say something. Cuz he might think it's harmless when in reality it does bother you.

2006-08-16 09:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0 0

To boost there ego!!! The more women they can flirt with and talk to makes them feel better about themselves! Makes them feel like they are the "MAN".... Any girl that a man calls just a friend... is the one they will run to after yall break up to get some!!!

2006-08-16 09:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Guys do not have female friends unless they are trying to get something out of it. If he loved you, he would not do that to you. He wouldn't do anything that would hurt you whether it was innocent or not. He is playing you for a fool.

2006-08-16 09:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Xena 3 · 0 0

well to me the answer is that most men feel more like a man if there is women around to flirt with. it is a hormone thing with men there is women out there like that too wanting all the attention so it is just hormones and feeling importent

2006-08-16 09:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by yum_two 2 · 0 0

I have as many female friends that I can get...that way when I flirt I know that I will score with a certain percentage....
Wanna fool around ;-)

2006-08-16 09:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0 0

The only female friends that guys have are ones they want to sleep with, unless they're gay.

Why do you need a boyfriend anyway?

2006-08-16 09:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

as long as you have guy associates! different than that, the ladies seem to truly such as you. it is excellent! once you have a female buddy, she would be able to no longer purely be your lover yet additionally your best buddy :3

2016-10-02 04:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

guys seem to think it makes them look popular and it boost there egos

2006-08-16 09:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 3 · 0 0

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