I feel really bad, but I can't help liking my sisters boyfriend! one of my siters friends told me he is only dating her to get to me. What should I do?
2006-08-16 09:12:50 · 54 answers · asked by ♥gottaluvstern♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are bad for wanting her boyfriend.
He is an asshoIe for dating your sister just to get to you.
You're asking what you should do? You should hate him for doing that to your sister, if it is true.
2006-08-16 09:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a no no!!!!! You dont go after your sisters man, even if he wants you. Who is more important to you? Your sister, or some guy who you probably wont even be dating anymore this time next year. Boys come and go, siters are forever.
2006-08-16 09:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with liking him. It's good that you like him, in fact. Think how it would be if you couldn't stand him!
Don't listen to your sister's friend. What kind of a friend would say a catty thing like that?
Get yourself a boyfriend that your sister and her boyfriend like, then you can all four have a lot of fun (and only dirty minds read that the wrong way!).
Remember that liking people - even quite a lot - doesn't mean you have to go out with them or steal them from someone else!
2006-08-16 09:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Owlwings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he really is dating your sister just to get to you, he's a scumbag and you should get a check up from the neck up for liking him. If he's dating your sister because he really likes her, then you should accept that and wait until you find someone who will make you forget all about him. Try not to complicate things. The situation you're in can turn into a really nasty mess if you don't watch it. Set your priorities straight and accept the responsibility for whatever choice you make.
2006-08-16 09:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tlak to your sister before things get completely out of hand. Soon the gossip could look like you broke them up if there is a break up. Then of course if he asks you out then that only increases the drama. Try to discuss this with your sister before this ever breaks out into the gossip circle! Also try to get together with this guy before your sister is attached to him in relationship terms. Remember this if you and this guy like each other well and the two of you mesh well then the future could hold the two of you together. That might not be well in a sister in law terms for your sister there could be years worth of resentment ahead of you. Sit and talk with her about your feelings and the what ifs completely before acting upon your own feelings as your actions result in her feelings and her actions. Her actions and feelings result in your actions and feelings.
Don't let a guy be the reason why a wonderful sister relationship might be ruined talk things out. Then once talked over with your sister talk to the guy!
2006-08-16 09:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't control who you like, but you can DEF. decide what to do about it. If you wanna stop liking him for your sister's sake, you need to control your thoughts, and watch what you say and do around him.
If you respect your sister at all, and want to avoid conflict, just back off. If they break up, that's a different story.
Also, if he's trying to get you, then why didn't he ask you out? He can decide on his own who he wants, which it looks like he already did.
Don't worry, girl, there are other guys out there. Help this helps.
2006-08-16 09:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you sister about this. If she gives you the green light then go for it. If you go for it with out her permission there is going to be trouble. I'm sure you can get him easily. Just tell him you want him. And then remove some clothes while kissing him. When you get your panties off he is yours. But what a price you will have to pay later when your sister finds out.
2006-08-16 09:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell your sister what you've just written. Then, see what the reaction is. If she agrees that you should date him, then do it. If she's upset by his reaction, then don't.
Remember this, though. Do you want a guy who would go through another girl, even if it wasn't your sister to get to you? In other words, why wouldn't he just come out and ask you out?
2006-08-16 09:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is your sisters man leave it alone. The friend could just be starting trouble. Your relationship with your sister should mean alot more to you than any man. Think about it this way "would my sister do me that way"
2006-08-16 09:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by jozetta W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with liking somebody, whats wrong is when you actually do somehting about it without your sisters permission. Get over the guy, and if he likes you, he will get over your sister. Dont worry about it, dont waste your time thinking about it. If it happens it happens, but b4 you go and start talking to this guy, make sure your sister wont hate you...cause she probably will. good luck with the like
2006-08-16 09:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. . . unless you want to have one very mad sister. If what you hear is true, he is going about getting to you the wrong way. I do not know of any situation like that working out and a lot of people usually get hurt. It's not worth it.
2006-08-16 09:16:53 · answer #11 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋