Because I'm away for work my daughter resides with my parents. Which I would eventually like to change if I felt my relationship was more stable. My taking her away would cause an uproar as my parents are very attached to her. I had a disagreement with my parents this weekend and was told by them they don't want to speak to me again. I called today because i heard my father went to the hospital and my mom advised me my father doesn't want me to know anything about his health and he doesn't want me at his funeral. Then she hung up. I know I have made mistakes in the past but we have gotten past those and up until this weekend when I couldn't go help them out with their business everything was fine. I can't help but feel guilty for them being so angry and going to get my daughter back is going to make things worse. Has anyone out there been in such a warped situation?
2006-08-16 08:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by Keisha S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get your daughter back and then if they love her then will commincate with you.
2006-08-16 09:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by staci m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear about your father, but as parents they should know that things said in the heat of the moment are not always ment. I would keep trying to talk to them if necessary apologize. If you want to spend what time you have left with them and see your daughter I would try to work it out. If calls don't work try e-mail or send a letter thru mail.
Good luck and I hope your father gets better and your relationship with them improves....please keep posted!
Take care,
2006-08-16 09:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't but it sounds like you have a dilemma...But your child comes first and if things are getting to the point where your father doesn't want to talk to you , then I would get your daughter out of there,,,Because she will pick up on their feelings. Your parents will get over it but your child is your main concern and have to deal with it as you see fit
2006-08-16 10:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they would be attached to her they are bringing her up as she is residing with them, you should be bringing your own daughter up not your parents you had the child.
you should consider another job where you can be /live with your daughter like most parents do and get a minder instead in your own home.
think they feel used by you and your not there for them when they need you.
2006-08-16 09:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥fluffykins_69♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly no i' haven't had that happen to me, not do i have children of my own. but i have seen son's and daughters upset and very regretfull that they didn't make amends before one of their parents passed. my only advise is to try to make amends with mom and dad, before it's too late!!
2006-08-16 09:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by strwrs7772000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please email me. I was in a similar situation not too long ago. But I have my son. My parents are just crazy. mushycats3@yahoo.com
2006-08-16 09:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tortured Soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋