so a guy i like: seen him loads, he told me he liked me, slept with him, seeing him, he texts me all the time etc and suddenly he went away for the weekend and i have not heard from him in 4 days. i called him at work (he called me at work loads so it was not in a stalkerish way) and said he had just got back and would talk to me later and i called him after work to see if he wanted to chill out and no answer, so i text (i know sounding desperate but i wanted to see him and see if he was ok) why has he not text or called me back????is he lost interest???is this just what guys do???i so why??shall i just ignore him now???
2006-08-16 08:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u notice ur obsessing over this way more then him right? U slept with him, ok, dont feel bad about that, but now ur calling him and he's not responding.....problem! back off some babe, guys do not respond to girls who will chase them , instead they enjoy to chase. Do not wait for his call, keep busy sweetie, u are doing too much, and he knows he's "got" u, ur letting him have the upperhand.
2006-08-16 08:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something happened over that weekend, could be a new girl, gotta face the facts. If he doesn't call or text you then something is definitely wrong, but he's probably not playing games, guys aren't that bad!
Chill for a bit, at least a week, then call him again, maybe something happened to a friend or family and he can't talk about it right now. Don't be too judgmental, you never know until you talk to him..
2006-08-16 08:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this happened to me last week! Sorry to say this hun but my guy did the same thing...everything was great, he went away for the weekend, and BAM! He came home a different person. He acted funny, didn't call when he said he would, etc... and then we broke up. SO, my advice to you is this: He isn't worth it. You can do better. And obviously if he put you through this he wasn't that in to you in the first place. I know it hurts but you need to move on. No guy that truly cares about you will treat you like that. Just remember that you aren't alone...I'm going through this too! There are better guys out there. Leave the loser and find someone that will treat you like a queen.
2006-08-16 09:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by prairiefire_14 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a girl that is hard to get. Stop calling him and texting him and let him come to you. When he finally does call, dont answer let him get your voice mail and call him a little later. If you make yourself unavailable then he Will want you more. Let him think that you dont need him and that you have your own life outside of him and watch how quick he comes to you. Trust me this works. Ive done this so many times and it always works. That's just how men are, you have to play these little games with them for them to realize what they have.
2006-08-16 08:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being a bad guy. don't play anymore. he's either met someone else or has a girlfriend. you've been used I'm sorry to say. it's not a game it's getting dumped by a coward. what a shame. this is why many women date a guy for months before going to bed with them. lots of men are very attentive til they get what they want. they like to hunt and chase. stop all contact and see what he does. if he comes running then you'll make a choice but i think you should choose to save yourself anymore heartache for this loser. they can't all be b******s so don't give up on love
2006-08-16 09:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and im sure he will contact you, it will schok him that you dont call or anything. I dont know why men have to play stupid games even if he didnt want to see you why not just say. I hope it all works out for you x
2006-08-16 08:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were used and are now being dumped and he doesn't have the balls to tell you to your face. Unfortunately some guys are like that.
2006-08-16 09:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by andylefty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have been using you. dont let him treat you like that. my advice is to move on and find a guy that will truely treat you right
2006-08-16 08:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by alohabola2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he mite just be a player...he kud have just used u...sorry, but dont let 1 guy bring u down!
2006-08-16 08:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by chica 4 God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋