How do you know when you are ready for sex?
I am 19 years old and have never. I have a b.f. of a year now and
we've done just about everything but. I want to but should I?
2006-08-16 07:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Sara-Jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say wait. There is no need to rush things and if you love each other than you can wait.
Also you wouldn't be tempted to go all the way if you didn't do all those other things. Slow down, enjoy each other and get to know him in a non-sexual way. If you cut out the "everything but" you won't be tempted to do "it" and you can enjoy each other more.
2006-08-16 08:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by N3WJL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you are questioning it then you aren't ready to be with him completely. Don't rush. If he loves you he will wait however long it takes for you to be ready to take such a huge step. Good luck and hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-16 08:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ready when you feel like giving it up to him and if u love each other theres nothing wrong and if his been with u for 1 year then really loves u because if he just wanted sex he would have been gone so if u feel like u love each other then i would say go for it and always use protection no matter what unless u want a kid
2006-08-16 08:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by joseacervantes86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop referring to it as "it". It's one of those things that you don't really know until it happens. It's usually spontaneous, because you just sort of go with the moment. Make sure you love this guy though, and don't do it just for the sake of doing it.
2006-08-16 08:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know if you are ready if you are mature enough to handle the consequences that comes along with sex.
2006-08-16 08:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your married honey...trust me,it will make u feel a whole lot better about yourself and u wont regret anything
2006-08-16 08:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Charley Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Just feel like u want that person right there right in that moment... Don't worry about it.. It would just happen naturally
2006-08-16 08:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then you should...but you have to make sure he loves you to... ask him how much he loves you face to face and you should be able to tell how much he loves you when he kisses you...kinda like the song...anywho if you do "do it" use protection ;D
2006-08-16 08:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking you are not ready. You just know.
2006-08-16 08:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should wait till ur married that way it will be spical and guys want what they can't have
2006-08-16 08:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Holly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋