My little brother, who is 21 is dating a 30 year old woman with 2 kids by 2 different fathers... now she is pregnant.
Am I missing something ? Is this right ? Should I say something?
2006-08-16 07:57:02 · 3 answers · asked by yadedyah_dc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has to live and learn. You can say something all you want. But by the end of the day he is going to do whatever it is he wants no matter if you turn blue in the face. I personally don't understand why he would want someone with kids anyway but that's my opinion.
2006-08-16 08:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think you should say anything. Your brother is 21 and fully capable of making his own decisions. If he learns later that it was a mistake then he will have learnt a valuable lesson.
BTW, I don't think this has anything to do with age but much more to do with the fact that she has two children by two different daddies. The age factor doesn't really matter when it comes to affairs of the heart. I am 42 dating a 36 year old man. It's not a problem.
2006-08-16 08:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
um, you should tell him to find someone with less baggage. Her age wouldn't be the problem, but she'll probably in end up pregnant by him, as well. Two kids and two men, she sounds like trouble for a naive 20 yr old.
2006-08-16 08:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋