so i met this girl megan awhile back and i liked her and we were friends for awhile. me being a guy, i asked her out. she said she would prefer to just stay friends. well when i went on vacation, we e-mailed eachother and arranged a time to hang. when we were hanging out, i told her that im told that im too nice to get a gf. then she said, thats not true. your perfect. so im wondering is she telling me that she likes me now and wants to try a relationship or is she telling me that i could get a gf easy, just not her. and if she does in fact like me, what do i do about without seeming pushy?
2006-08-16 07:52:44 · 24 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just play it cool. Don't obsess about this. If chemestry comes into play and you end up together, you end up together. If not, there are plenty of other girls out there. It's nice to have friends that are girls that you are attracted to. Cause they'll probably have other friends that are girls that you'd be attracted to. Just go with the flow...she maybe taking it slow, trying to guage where you're coming from. And let whatever happen...happen.
2006-08-16 08:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this... I am a girl. If she stated in the beginning that she would prefer to just stay friends that is EXACTLY what she means. Now, when she stated that it wasn't true that you are 2 nice to get a girlfriend she did mean what she said but your right she meant NOT HERr. Now, take my advice if you want her for a girlfriend, don't pursue her stand back and wait. She will wonder why you are not pursuing her. She will be thinking what he doesn't think I'm good enough. And all of a sudden POOF!!! You become more interesting and boyfriend material!!! Girls dont like pushy. You peek their interest more when you aren't pushy and you seem to be not interested in them. I hate to play games but also sometimes just mentioning some other girl likes you works to. Don't call her for a day or or 2 and when you talk and she says what have you been up to say "Oh I just got off the phone with so and so or I went 2 the movies last night with so and so" and then just change the subject. She will be left wondering who so and so is, and how she can get ride of so and so and be your girlfriend! Hope this helps.
2006-08-16 15:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like a lost cause man. Unfortunately you broke into the "friend zone" and there is usually not a way out of that. Next time before you feel you are making more of a friend than a girl friend make a move. That will let her know that you are not interested in being a friend, but something more.
2006-08-16 14:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by SigEp84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being a good friend. You could get a girlfriend, but she is still only wanting to be friends with you. If you try pushing for a relationship with anyone, it just won't work and you only end up pushing the other person away. My advice is to just stop looking for a girlfriend and love will find you. Whenever I am looking for a boyfriend, I never find one, but when I'm not, love usually finds me. Just hold tight and see where life takes you! You'd be surprised what you'll find!
2006-08-16 15:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by ~Mel~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes u shes just scared of relationship because if things go south she dosent wanna lose u its safer to keep you a friend sometimes friends last longer.If she wants more she will let you know.I would give it some time keep dropping hints or flirting whatever maybe she will see how much she wants u and come around.Dont push it though these things take time.
2006-08-16 14:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be frank i don't think she is interested even if she said something that seems to you that she is. I know, women are complicated. in general, when a woman sees you as a friend it'll always remain like this. her opinion of you is not gonna change whatever you do.
2006-08-16 14:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by keepongrowing@guy.constantly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she thinks your perfect why aren't you perfect for her. Maybe she doesn't want to try the relationship and ruin the friendship.
2006-08-16 14:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just gave you a compliment. She is probably not attracted to you in a romantic way, which is why she thinks highly of you, but doesn't want a dating relationship.
2006-08-16 14:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you and thinks you would not have a problem getting a gf, that's it, don't try to read into it. she just wants to be your friend.
2006-08-16 14:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by SAChicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't mean she likes you now. She is just telling you the truth and lifting your confident and also it can be she likes you, but to a lesser extent.
2006-08-16 15:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋