My boyfriend and i have been seeing eachother for about 7-8 months now and he insists that i move in with him because he's lonely. I come from a very traditional family and don't believe in living together or premarital sex. He's had a few breakdowns already and i dont know what to do to make him happy. I guess he's been getting tired of waiting for me. He lives in GA and i live in CA temporarily. He'll be moving to cali in a couple weeks but that just doesnt cut it for him. I've told him about my beliefs and that sort of stuff countless times.. i've grown frustrated with how he gets whenever he experiences these breakdowns, i've even thought about just giving up cause i just dont seem to make him happy cause i dont do what he tells me. He swears he loves me and would never leave me. He swears he doesn't talk to other women but i've logged into his myspace account and have found a few emails where he's contacted a couple girls... i dont know what to think or do anymore.
2006-08-16 07:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by norma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't act desperate whatever you do. That is a major turnoff for guys 'cause then they feel trapped. You have to stick with your beliefs. I agree with you. If he is contacting other girls than I would say he isn't worth it. I am in the same dillema. I know my boyfriend asked another girl out. I suggest you go to the topic of his myspace account and get closer and closer to the topic of other girls. If he comes out with it and tells you then good for him. If he doesn't than maybe he's not worth it?!?
2006-08-16 08:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by L.E Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant respect your decision than he is not worth waiting for. "there are plenty fish in the sea" why stress over this guy who cant respect you i would say leave him dont give him the chance to leave you! and it seems like you obviously dont trust him checking his "myspace" if booty is what he wants than let him have it he doesnt deserve you! that's the only reason why he's talking to other girls someone bound to give it up!
2006-08-16 07:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 04:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 figure it out whats bugging him and try 2 act a little beat slutty if u have 2 and if it doesn't work dump him!any guy would be happy 2 be with a woman about her personality and not for her looks!
2006-08-16 08:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by ssonic2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go,if he comes back its 4 u
2006-08-16 07:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either dump him or hump him.
I'd go for dump him!
2006-08-16 07:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sara-Jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he can't respect your wishes then "BYE"
2006-08-16 07:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up....and don't forget to swallow
2006-08-16 07:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋