I've properly fallen for my mates ex-gf. I've known her for about 6years and have always been really good friends with her and we always flirt, laugh and take the mick out of each other. Should I try and 'test' the water to see if she wants more or would it just cause harm to our friendship? Thanks
2006-08-16 07:47:36 · 19 answers · asked by Simondo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's been with my mate for 4 of those years. 'Taking the mick' means like joking around taking the piss light-heartedly. kind of thing
2006-08-16 07:56:32 · update #1
Grow a pair and just talk to her.
2006-08-16 07:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably f*ck things up
Easier to be freinds with someone,
once the relationship changes then the chances are that you both will change slightly and also what you want from each other will change,
it will complicate things with your mate also,
the choice is yours, but too close to home for my comfort
2006-08-16 07:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by ryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. why not try talking to her? maybe she also likes you? Then if you think and feel there's a chance of you being together, then test the water.. but if she told you that she only whats friendship then respect her, coz you might ruin your friendship.
2006-08-16 07:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, you've known her for that long and still like her, there is something there..
Whats "take the mick out of each other" mean??
2006-08-16 07:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always the possibilty of messing up a friendship when doing that. But, hey, you will never know how things may have worked out if you never tried. Good luck!!
2006-08-16 07:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sugaree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you forget to mention one important factor here..your friend?! have you considered his feelings?! if i were you i'd ask him first before you do anything! if friendship is important to you then i'd only act upon it if your friend was ok with it.
As for the girl, see what kind of signals you are getting from her. You can get alot without words, so try and find out that way before asking her and potentially creating tension.
2006-08-16 07:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by bananapancakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mates ex girlfriends are a definite no-no...and besides, if something was going to happen, dont you think it would have already in the 6 years you have known her?
2006-08-16 07:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't try it i think you would mess things up not only with the girl but your m8 as well and 4yrs is a long time to be with some one so it must of been a serious relationship.
2006-08-16 08:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if there's any hope for taking the relationship to the next level.
2006-08-16 07:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shag her over the table in front og your mate..and see if he or she likes the idea...
2006-08-16 07:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by gorgeoushunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋