I did ask this girl out who told me that was seeing someone. She claimed that I was too slow in asking her out. Anyways, it turns out that she broke up her boyfriend. She called me that it just occured. I have a feeling that there is room for me. I still have my doubts as to whether to go for it or not. Note: she thinks I have a girlfriend but I really don't I feel like she's want to date me now bcos she just broke the old relationship. I am in a limbo here. please advice me, well meaning yahoo folks. Thanks.
2006-08-16 07:41:32 · 11 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it. Tell her you just broke up too and maybe the two of you could comfort each other.
But go realllly slowly. If you go too fast, you become the "rebound" guy and will only be around until she picks herself up off her feet.
Rebound relationships can be friggin wild. But, you're looking for a little longer term, right?
So, take your time. Don't rush things. Wait till she picks herself up, then date her! You'll both enjoy it more that way.
2006-08-16 07:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think this is all that serious.
Just go with the flow...(taking it slow of course). Have fun, you're reading to deep into everything. It's not a bad thing if someone you like wants to date you.
However, watch out when you start investing emotionally, I'm very skeptical about getting involved with someone who just jumps from one person to another. Cause the situation could play out again with you getting dumped for some other person, rather quickly.
Just take everything in stride and have fun.
2006-08-16 14:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why claim you have a girlfriend? Come clean and ask her out. If she says no, then that should be the last time you ask. If she uses some excuse like she needs time, then she will need to come to you.
2006-08-16 14:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by OCSiren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question her motives. Unless you have reason to believe that she broke up with this guy for you, she may just need a man around.
2006-08-16 14:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just for the fact she thinks you have a girlfriend,Id sure want to recheck that......She breaks up with her boyfriend calls you and what automatically assumes youll break up with your girl???? I
think she is just playing a scene.watch your step.
2006-08-16 14:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her and want to be with her then ask her out most girls dont ask guys out. that is how i am if a guy likes me and i love him i should say no matter what i will not ask him out. so i if u like her then go for it what do u have to lose? GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2006-08-16 14:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it. you have nothing to lose. if she says no, then she was never worth it in the first place. if she says yes, well there you go.
2006-08-16 14:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo better ask her before someone else does
2006-08-16 14:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think she is uusing you
find someone better
becuase she is just using you as a rebound...
2006-08-16 14:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by meg[adores jessica simpson] =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it dude...i guess God is happy with u...ur getting a chance ..dont have doubts ...give it a try.may be things work out ..and u get wat u really wanted.(i,e if ur sure this is wat u wanted)
2006-08-16 14:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by romeo_2k_20009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋