ask her to spend the night 3 nights in a row. The two of you are already physical so that can't be an excuse.
Or would having her over consecutivly like that be a sign for wanting something more serious?
2006-08-16 07:37:58 · 19 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all nights did anything happen, and one night I (the female for the person who thinks im not....0.o) initiated it. He just asked me over for a 4th night.
2006-08-16 07:45:22 · update #1
Good sex knows no limits. Probably still wants to remain casual. He wants the good sex with the no strings attached. Wait and see if he does it the week you are on the rag. That will be a true sign that he wants more if he does.
2006-08-16 07:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy tells you he only wants a casual relationship, thats all he wants. You spending 3 nights in a row with him doesn't matter. That just means that you are available to him whenever HE wants. Basically its guaranteed A S S. So, of course he's happy about that. But, once you start expecting more from him, or thinking the situation is more than what it is, he probably will remind you that he only wanted a casual relationship. Once another girl comes along that he likes a little better, he'll remind you again. Don't get your hopes up.
2006-08-16 14:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by *karasi* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a guy, when I mean 'casual' I really ask a girl not to expect too much from the off. Often in a relationship tension and expectations build quickly, so one gets to think "i should call him, or it's all over" or the like. Pressure, pressure.
When a lovely lass would spend 3 nights in a row with me I would not want for her to think I'm dreaming of 'going steady' and all, not if I've already said I'd like it casual. It's not saying I want sex with other girls in the meanwhile either though.
I think what you should try to do is relax, take it easy - that's what he probably has in mind. Enjoy every night, but don't start with commitment questions and all just yet. It'll appear by itself. In short: don't worry, just enjoy yourself, and him, the company, everything.
Oh and please don't listen to all the scorned girls on here going 'mennar pigs' - some are, but with that attitude, every guy is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
2006-08-16 14:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, been burned there, have you ? Repeat after me,
"Mennar Pigs"
It's a mantra - and you need to say it to yourself several times a day until you find one that is not. (And don't forget - women have a different but equal category into which we often fit.) There are men out there who will not do what you have outlined. But the bottom line is that - at a certain age - a guy will do just about anything to get into a chick's pants. Period. If it means lying, then that'll happen. If it means misleading, then that'll happen. AND - since men do not view sex the same way that women do - having sex WILL NOT MEAN that the relationship is more than casual. (Hence "casual sex" and "friends with privileges.") If a woman wants to know the status of the relationship, then she needs to get a clear, clean answer backed up by conduct before she offers up sex.
2006-08-16 14:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know I'm not your target audience for this question, but I want to give you a little advice...
A relationship is a relationship. It will be casual until you are connecting to the point of being able to talk with one another so freely that you don't torture yourself with the dynamics of how it works and where it is going.
Live each day as it comes, enjoy the fact that this guy wants to spend time with you but don't read too much in to it. Don't cling to him in the hope of some expectant future. Your future is today. If you are enjoying being with him, why question his, and your own, integrity?
If you like and respect him as a friend and lover, then you must first respect yourself.
Try talking to him...
2006-08-17 06:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by CC...x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, It would depend on how much I liked her, and would be any more serious than what has already happened. But, if I had spent the night three nights in a row, I expect something would happen. Especially with my girlfriend I have now. Sadly, she's kind of a hoe, but I love her anyway.
2006-08-16 14:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by chromepie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will leave it to be casual, it started physical and i would like it to continue that way. But I wont give a false impression if it isnt casual, i will be frank about it.
2006-08-16 14:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by R R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because its already physical doesnt mean it cant be an excuse.
if you had sex all three nights. then it was because he wanted sex all three nights
if you didnt have sex all three nights, then he probably wants it to be more serious,or at least is thinking about it and wants to see if you go postal or something while in temporary full time status.
2006-08-16 14:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by digital genius 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your spending the night with the opposite sex then something sexual is happening. Don't be illusioned.
2006-08-16 14:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by watersprings 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would give her mixed signals...Only have her over once and a while. every night would make her think that you want more...
2006-08-16 14:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋