Ok, I've been talking to this guy, and we have great times, but we havent met. He tells me that I might be more than he can handle. Yet in the next sentence tells me how much fun I am, and lays on all the flattery. I like him, and we are both adults. We have fun talking and both lead two very different lives. We ahve been at this for 3 months, and we talk about meeting, but we live 5 hours away. We both have a mutual attraction. When I actually bring up the idea of meeting, he kinda clams up...Should I pursue it, or kick him to the "friends only" list?
2006-08-16 07:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by Lemme tell ya... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
5 hours? forget it unless you or he plans to move!
2006-08-16 07:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be friends only. If hes saying you may be more than he can handle and youre fun he may be thinking that youre gona want to have sex with him. Thats what most guys think about all the time anyway. I would stay away unless all you want is a sexual relationship.
2006-08-16 07:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to meet him you want to meet him. I see no reason why he could not meet you half way for lunch and some chat time. If he would not meet me I would kick him to the friends list.
2006-08-16 07:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by darlene793 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been a little prudent toward internet relationships
2006-08-16 07:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the friends only list.
2006-08-16 07:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and go to his house....... he probably just is scared that the relationship wont work becasue of the distance..... but you just going all the way might help
2006-08-16 07:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋