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2006-08-16 07:25:59 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. Gay is gay.
You move on.
2006-08-16 07:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Brian L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't really "turn him straight". You can, however, keep him in a relationship where he won't be happy with the intent of "turning him back". What probably happened is that he's been living with this for his entire life and he's only now come out with it because he either trusts you enough or he feels like he's living a lie. What you can do is to support him and not be judgemental. Help him figure out who he is and how he can be happy. Chances are, pretending to be straight isn't the way to his happiness.
2006-08-16 07:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. This is not learned behavior, and it cannot therefore
be unlearned.
However, if someone has just told his girlfriend he is homosexual,
he *MUST* be confused.
Or, I suppose, he may have decided that he really wants to piss
you off!
More likely, however, he has realized that he likes the male
form and isn't too scared to say it. It doesn't mean he is
necessarily completely homosexual - it may mean that he
is beginning to grips with a part of himself.
Are you his friend? If so, he's got a bumpy road ahead of
him - no matter whether he turns out to be homo-, hetero- or
bi-sexual. Figuring that out if you aren't completely sure
is usually a nasty experience.
If you are his friend, you'll be around for him.
If you were just lovers, you might be best off to turn tail and
run...
2006-08-16 07:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult situation! Ask him if he's always known that he was gay, or if it's a recent feeling. If it's the latter, then it could just be a phase he is going through. We all go through this phase sometime in our life, it's absolutely normal. You could also ask if he's had any contact with another male, sexual, or not, because once he tries this he might perhaps change his mind. If these questions don't work, then convince him to be bi-sexual, there's nothing better than getting the best of both worlds!
B.
2006-08-16 07:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by bruabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he turn gay all of a sudden, or as an excuse, to end the relationship with you? If he's really gay at heart, you tell me; is being gay an option or is it a predetermined factor? Perhaps the relationship you have with him is not meant to be, and rather to regret and be hurt later, move on with your life!
2006-08-16 07:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even bother? There are plenty of fish in the sea so get one that isn't going to cause you unneccesary headaches. If he is gay then plant your foot on his butt as you help him out the door. Be a little more careful in the screening selection of the new and improved model.
2006-08-16 07:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time youre with him in bed try to push his weewee back inside him n use a dildo on him. if u cant get it in the front door try the back, at least try the back on him. if he freaks n says 'nooo dont do that!' then hes not ready to be gay n he just doesnt know what he wants. wait till he gets a bf w a huge wang that stretches him out enuff to fit a volkswagen, then ask him if hes done being gay
2006-08-16 07:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. People are born that way. The brain of a gay guy is identical to that of a woman (scientific fact). All you can do is love him and be there for him. :) Think about it... he is STILL the same guy... the only thing that has changed is that YOU now know more about him.
2006-08-16 07:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Flyleaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is gay..do you really WANT to turn him back straight?
But move on mommy...there are too many straight guys out there for you to worry about someone that wants to be gay.
Tell him (and his boyfriend) Peace out!
2006-08-16 07:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you like a girl friend then he will turn straight. Just give him a bit of time.
2006-08-16 07:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by thunder2295 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant turn him straight and if you really care about him you wont put any pressure on him i know you must feel hurt just be thankful you were'nt married at least he had the courage to tell you now i hope you can still be friends. GOOD LUCK and i hope you can forgive him in time
2006-08-16 07:46:13 · answer #11 · answered by blakeman6830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋