I always did but recently i had a horrible experience with a guy and don't believe in guys or love...i don't know if i can even love again.. Should i believe in love?
2006-08-16 07:22:58 · 54 answers · asked by sweetgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should continue believing in love, not feel faltered by a broken love you had. There are true loves out there that will really appreciate you for the way you are.
2006-08-16 07:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love.... but to achieve this successfully you should be patient. Because you had one horrible experiance, it doesnt mean the rest of the guys are the same. That was just ONE guy of 'many'.
When you do meet a guy.... never rush into anything. You can easily see signs of what he will want and everything else, or whether he's serious. I also say this for guys on girls also.
Good things wil come your way, but dont say you can never love again. Love is something we can never control... even those less lovers out there.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-16 07:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I do.
I mean: how would not I? It´s epidemic. Wherever I go I see couples (of all races, nationalities, religions or sexual orientations) suffering from its symptoms.
It´s a terrible disease with major consequences; it makes people go crazy and creates inexplicably desires in them of: getting married, have children, open joint accounts, presenting their family and friends to each other, amongst other things. All of these desires are recipes for a disaster.
But here is the major problem of love: it´s contagious. And not only that, everyone (including myself) wants to be infected with this mind numbing virus. I too want to be infected, and why not? let´s have it kill me.
Now the serious part of my answer: Yes, I do. and so should you. Terrible experiences will drive you away of the fundamental truth that men and women (or men or men, or women or women) are only here to enjoy each other. If someone has hurt you, maybe take some time off, but never give up on the idea of falling in love again. Prepare yourself, because something great will come along, and you better be ready. Everybody get´s hurt, and no matter what that asshole did to you; please don´t let that ruin the rest of your life. I hope this helps.
Kisses from Buenos Aires, Argentina
2006-08-16 07:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by villyamr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My my my. This is so familiar. After every break up I went thru this. The pain. The whole I-will-never-fall-in-love-again scenario. I know how it feels. Im so sorry you're currently going thru this.
You know, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. You will meet a nice guy (or girl, in my case) that will make you forget the dumb jerk that hurt you real quick.
You will go thru pain, just like you are now, but that's just nature. Love can be SUCH a beautiful once you find the right person to share it with.
You will fly again dont worry. Good Luck=)
2006-08-17 08:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I DO Believe In Love 100%
and i do believe there is someone for everyone
i have had a bad experience with a guy but that don't mean there is no one for you it just means he was not the right one i am single at the moment but i know i will find the man of my dreams one day somewhere when i am not looking and not expecting to find him
2006-08-16 07:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love but I also believe love can hurt. Badly. But eventually in time it can fade and we can move on. How can you not believe in love when you know it is real because you felt it (feel it still?). You will love again, I promise. Maybe a new mate or a child or a good friend. You also love your mom and dad and other family members, right? And I am sure they love you too. So quit feeling so bad and go out and enjoy your life. You can do that while you are single too, ya know.
2006-08-16 07:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I believe and have felt true hate, i believe there is true love. There has to be a balance nature is constantly at this struggle of equilibrium.... and yes you should believe in Love, because if not whwat else would you have to look forward too, and most likely your young, and you have the rest of your life to fall in love, and experience better things, than the punks you have been with have shown you.
2006-08-16 07:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love in family and friends yes. I've had plenty of horrible experiences ... OMG most people wouldn't even imagine. I don't believe in love 'at this moment' but deep down I guess there's something out there. I just have to be patient. Listen to your heart. It most likely will steer you away from the heartbreakers.
2006-08-16 07:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop believing in love, it exists. Also remember that not all guys are jerks, just some of them. Horrible experiences educate us, help us to keep our eyes open to what we really want and don't want from a relationship. Keep your head up, there is someone out there for you.
2006-08-16 07:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Valarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I very much believe in love and you should to. Don't let one jerk ruin your life. Love has already happened to me twice. I have been with my current fiance 7 years and the last guy I was with for 3 and a half. It happens many times but you have to love yourself and get over whatever that guy tried to do. He is not worth it. Its not easy and may take time but you will get over it all and love again. Mark my words.
2006-08-16 07:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋