So my girlfriend is really tight back there and is afraid of getting it...even a finger hurts sometimes..what to do?
2006-08-16 07:16:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slow and steady ... that's all ... practice practice practice ... after awhile she will start to loosen up ... use lots and lots of lube ... start out with the finger ... if she has toys start with the smalls ones first .. I find the vibration to be a little bit more comforting once it's penetrated .... if it's still painful to her ... she's not letting herself relax .... she has to relax or it's never going to feel good ... try getting her really drunk one night ... but with her consent of course ... and then try it out ... I'm sure she'll be a lot more open-minded and a lot more flexible ... lol ... !
2006-08-16 07:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is tight back there, not just her. She is tense and that is why even a finger hurts. She needs to relax but since she is afraid of it its going to be pretty hard. Try a glass on wine and lots of lubrication.
2006-08-16 07:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of the unknown causes tension and tightness. Play a little and then play a lot. Little finger and lube and time. Don't rush it.
2006-08-16 07:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do not pressure her. It isnt in the terms of service to give it up. If she wants to try then make it a game use massage oils and take things slow show her that with a lot of love and care and taking things slow it can have its rewards.
2006-08-16 07:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Savage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anal eaze is a lube that numbs just enuf 4 u 2 take ur time n putting it n
2006-08-16 07:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words
Colt Anal Trainer
and LOTS of LUBE
2006-08-16 07:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try some gel to lube her up a bit and work real slow when trying this.if she has ant trouble with it at all you better stop.
2006-08-16 07:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by jenny54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no her pain make her really wet and just take your time use some lubricate she has to do it to get use to it
2006-08-16 07:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of lube, get her drunk too, that seems to really loosen it up, literally and figuratively...
2006-08-16 07:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Add Man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try ramming a dildo in your *ss and see if it feels good to you, if it does than she should shut the f*ck up and do it!
2006-08-16 07:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋