My girlfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me 3 months ago. She said she didnt want a boyfriend right now and she wanted to be single and that she knows that we are going to be together in the future and get married. Were 18. I completely stopped talking to her for about a week now and she has called me a few times and also called a friend of mine to ask him to make me talk to her. She has been talking to a few guys on myspace and gave them her number and she has been hanging out with her "new best friend" which is a girl but seems to be a bad influence on her and she also hates me for some reason. Do you thing she will change her mind and relize that she cant be without me ? She knows that im the best guy that she could find, but then why would she leave me and talk to other people. And I know that she kissed this one guy.
2006-08-16 07:04:51 · 15 answers · asked by Help mee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no one knows but her.
2006-08-16 07:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
UMM, your 18! you have no idea what you are missing out on by being tied down. Trust me. I just ended a marriage with a man that I was with since 18. At 27, I felt that we had grown into totally seperate people. Go live life and experiment and explore. That is what she's doing, and its a good thing for you both that this happened now instead of 5-10 years down the road.
2006-08-16 07:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by foxxyy44u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one that knows that is her myfriend. You have to realize that some things you have NO control over.
By that being said, its time for you to pick up the pieces and move on. She is moving on so why not you. If its ment to be then it will be. Dont be the fool to sit around just waiting for her while she is out dating other guys. Because its not 100% guaranteed that she will come back. Its time for you to be happy to. So go out and meet new people. Dont be suprised if you find someone that is alot better then your ex.
2006-08-16 07:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never come back..seriously! Since she is out there getting some strange arce, you should do the same. Just try not to think about a bunch of dudes running a train on her....focus on railing some hot hunnies with very tight boxes.
2006-08-16 07:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life and stop worrying about what she is doing. She may come back she may not you are young and so is she. If you move on you may not care if she comes back. Don't be treated as a cast off you deserve better than that. take this time to find out what you want and need.
2006-08-16 07:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Len 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are both too young to be so serious. You should go out and meet other girls and learn what traits you really want in a woman. She is apparently just being young and playing the field and you should do the same.
2006-08-16 07:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry bro, that's a shitty situation to be in. I guess my advice would be this: Go out and have fun. Try and not worry about her and go ahead and do your own thing. If things are meant to be with this girl then it'll happen on its own. For now, just try to have fun and meet people. I'm not saying that you have to try desperately to get over her, but don't just sit and wait around for her either. Good luck.
2006-08-16 07:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably won't anytime soon. She seems like she just wants to have fun. Possibly, in a couple years after she realizes she doesn't want to date a loser anymore she may want you back. That could also be at a time when your with someone else. I think your too good for her. Good luck man.
2006-08-16 07:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just wasting time with this girl when you could be having fun dating multiple girls, or finding someone who complements your passions in life. You're too young to just hold on to this one girl like she's the last girl in the world. Trust me, wonderful girls are everywhere, you just have to work at it.
2006-08-16 07:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words MOVE ON she aint worth the trouble
2006-08-16 07:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by rives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt want u, then leave her, dont waste ur life over a girl who doesnt care about ur feelings or u. dont worry u find someone who u really deserve.
2006-08-16 07:12:10 · answer #11 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋