I am 16 years old and never had a gf help?

Question

I am 16 years old and never had a gf help?
I tried alot last year and ended up having girls that i never even talked to b4 say that i was stalking them thats done and over with now but it ruiend my reputation what should i do to get back out there i am a very nice guy i am a lifeguard pizza cook and i would like to have a girlfriend

i am catholic and i am not acting desprate anymore

i am also a wildlife photographer and videographer i recently started doing senior pics and i love all sports i love to hike and fish so i am an interesting guy

i am a jounior in HS

Answer 1

Go out boy! Chat with a girl! See what`s comming up!

Answer 2

No, you definitely have to show the girl that you are interested. i am a girl so i know ;) don't be sleazy in any way though, and don't make her feel awkward. To befriend the girl first is the best approach, and then when you know each other a little better, start showing suttle hints that you are interested. Be a friendly, happy guy. Everybody likes positive people, and people who show interest in their person, i e show that you care - ask questions about her and her life, family etc. Don't just talk about yourself! And don't talk **** about other people, that's a major turn-off! A compliment here and there also helps, but they do have to be sincere! Take it easy and relax, take it as it comes. Girls notice if you are desperate for a girlfriend and that's not a good thing. You are only sixteen, you still have plenty of time, i didn't start dating until i was seventeen and now i date a lot so your current status doesn't mean that you'll be single for the rest of your life! Just relax, have fun, make friends and enjoy life :)

Answer 3

It's okay. A lot of 16 year olds haven't had a boyfriend or girlfriend yet. Try to meet some girls and be friends w/ them. Just try not to be shallow.. If it's really really that bad that you can't get anyone there.. Take you and a friend and go out to a diffrent town and try there. You know.. Just go to the mall and strike up a convo!! Just be friends and get to know each other first before you jump into the whole relationship. Good luck man! ;)

Answer 4

Instead of going straight from stranger to girlfriend, try just being a friend first. If you're a lifeguard you must like the sun and beach, a lot of girls like that also. Join clubs at school that interest you. If a girl thinks that by just saying 'Hi' to you, you're going to assume you want her to have your children, then they will run the other direction. You are very young and I know that you are going to have lots of girlfriends in your life. Sometimes it's true, that when you stop looking, what you want will find you.
Best Wishes, :)

Answer 5

What your 16 !!!, the only thing i can think of is that your having a problem with your self-image.
When i say that i mean having a problem with the person you want to become. You have to figure that out decided on how your going to attract some one weather it's looks or your personality, that's your decision. when you have made up ur mind and have gotten your self together then find someone & SLOWLY make a move on her get to know her and find out if it's someone you want to be with. You can't just ask a girl out that you barely know an expect her to say yes to you take your time, and Good Luck , wish you all the best

~* KIKI *~

Answer 6

Wow you're 16. You really don't need to worry about all that stuff yet. I know it seems like the most important thing in the whole world right now, but really you have so much time for that. You need to concentrate on having fun and being young and without responsibilities. You'll have no problems with girls if you are doing interesting things. Girls will be drawn to you if you're not so interested in them. Trust me.

Answer 7

Well... first of all, you can help the situation by changing your look a little. This can boost your confidence and, of course, attract girls. Why don't you make some new friends who just "happen" to be girls, and then advance the friendship until it gets to a point where it is somewhat romantic.
Or just approach a new girl in your class and tell her you can show her around or go out with her so that she isn't lonely or anything. Then keep being friends with her until it gets cozy.

Answer 8

hey Mr.life guard a such a young age u shouldn't feel too bad, there are a lot of person out there worse than u for example i know a lady who is 50 and still a virgin so u still have a lot of time left and don't do anything stupid to give anyone the impression that your a stalker because a bad reputation doesn't help the process so just relax and Mrs.right will arrive sooner than u expect.

Answer 9

Sweetheart, you are being desperate. I understand you want a girlfriend and all but first you have to present yourself friendly and be yourself. Your reputation is not as ruined as you think, and you mention you are a Catholic. When you go to church make friends if you are not already with a young lady there. In order to have a good relationship you have to establish friendship first and compatibility, pace yourself you are only 16 you have your whole life ahead of you to date and save yourself for marriage trust me.

Have fun being young.

Answer 10

Well let me start off by saying this I will be your gurl frind lol No but the right gurl will come 2 u, ask some of your gril friends if u have some what they like in boys and what r u doing wrong

Answer 11

my husband didn't even have any girlfriends through out school and until he was in his 20's. He was shy and backwards. You are very young yet. Give it time. There will be many many chances. You will most likely end up meeting someone who doesn't attend your school and getting together. Don't give up, you have many other things to worry about other than a girlfriend.