2006-08-16 06:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by brokenheart_girl84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They say living well is the best revenge. Take care of yourself, look your best, and do well in your position.
2006-08-16 07:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by cass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if u really take a look at urself first, and see what the problem is. were u a good girlfriend? did u do all, and try to be all, for him? did u love and respect and commit to him? well, you got your part straightened out anyways....now, did he respect you? did he commit, take care of you, satisfy ur needs too? did he try to do all and be all for you? or did he take u for granted, not appreciate u, etc etc..?
the thing is, if u are completely sure that u are a great person and wonderful girlfriend..why wouldn't u expect the same of ur boyfriend? if someone has hurt u, treated u badly, not appreciated you, and made u feel bad about yourself, he is not right for you. and he is not good enough for you. because what u want and need in a boyfriend is someone who treats you Right. who will try his hardest to take care of you and make you happy. not because you are controlling, needy, or bratty. but because you made sure u were a good, committed, caring girlfriend. therefore, it is only obvious that u deserve someone who will treat u right. and care about u enough not to hurt you.
so if this guy was a jerk, don't waste anymore time pining away for him. because he couldn't change, or was unwilling to change for you. my advice would be to work on urself; ur appearance, ur smarts, ur ability to feel Confident in urself as a Strong, Confident woman. that way, u will never take any less than the best, because u are the best. :) never let someone treat u badly, and never let that person make u feel badly about urself. the thing is, u cared and loved this person. u are Awesome. be proud of urself. but if it didn't work out, it didn't. and u are worth waiting to find someone who will be Good to you. have expectations of urself, and u will have the right to have expecations from ur partner. keep positive, happy, healthiness around u and filter out the negative. this guy is a negative in ur life, so let him go. worry about urself and ur happiness, and u will realize u dont' need to care about him anymore. he chose to do what he did, he chose to go away. let him go find someone good for him, and let him go so u can find someone good for you. good luck~
2006-08-16 13:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look good, smile, have a no hard feelings additude. He will wonder if the break up was a mistake
2006-08-16 14:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Wildflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump off a bridge.
2006-08-16 13:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new job
2006-08-16 13:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by miataraceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋