My new beau & I have been dating for about 2 months. He has already "popped the question", the only problem is..... I'm still in love with my ex!! He is a very good man, but I just think that he has moved too fast!! I have not had a chance to break it off with my ex, but he has an idea that I'm involved with someone else. I did not want to end it this way. What should I do?
2006-08-16 06:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by Harleygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two months is definitely too fast! Especially if your heart is in another place. You need to take "feelings" inventory, and decide once and for all which guy you want to proceed with, because stringing them both along is unfair, and you will eventually lose them both if you continue to do so. They will both see you as untrustworthy and non-committal, and they will move on and you will end up alone. This is a complicated situation, and there will be an unhappy ending for one or more parties, but it will end badly anyway if things continue the way they are. I would think long and hard about what it is you expect from a man and a relationship, and pursue the man you think best fits the profile. Make a clean break with the other guy, and stay away, otherwise the lingering feelings for both will continue to confuse you... and hurt them. Good luck!
2006-08-16 06:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need breathing space... You need time after a relationship to start fresh in the new one. I would say no to both of them and be by myself for a while.
2006-08-16 06:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest!!!!! 2 months is a very short time to be proposing to someone...Weird
2006-08-16 06:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray that things will magically fix themseleves then get high as a kite
2006-08-16 06:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by blackpanther000002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋