guyss?? please answer this!?!?!?

Question

guys please answer???
i dont understand y guys are always calling me sexy and hot..i dont dress like a ****! i rather be called beautiful or pretty!! but it seems like all i get is sexy, hott, or i'd totally do u! damn..that makes me so mad..gosh..does it hurt to call a girl beautiful and love her for who she is. n not for her body!!!!!!!
ps..ya i kno that all guys arent like this but most r!

Answer 1

Hi. Guys have literally two different brains: one that thinks and one that thinks for them. The brain that thinks for them is kind of stupid and makes them say all kinds of lewd and inappropriate remarks, and some times it makes them do things they shouldn't do at all. The good brain, that is, the one that sits on a guy's shoulder, has the capability to actually think sometimes, and if a guy used that brain, he would not say the things that the other brain is pushing him to say. The guy undergoes this struggle between these two brains all the time. Unfortunately, it's the girl's physical qualities that bring out that part of the guy and make him unable to think clearly and make him weak minded. If a girl is smart, she finds a guy who can think with clearly with the brain that sits on his shoulders.

Answer 2

Well, part of the problem is most guys (not all) don't know how to or don't want to express a sexual and/or purely physical feeling any other way. We see something we like about a woman and we express it. Not well all the time but, its a is a 'real' feeling. Now, I must say that a part of it might be you too. I haven't seen how you dress and carry yourself on a regular basis but, its not about looking like a 'SL*T'. If you are confident, sexy, smart, and know how to speak your mind, most men would still be like "I'd DO her in a heartbeat!" Most men are all about the visual so, how you carry yourself could be a part of it. How you act could be apart of it too. Just be yourself. Realize that, at least, you are getting some level of praise for how you look. Not a lot of women (and men) get that. Peace

Answer 3

Advise 101. You pretty much answered your own question in the "ps" section. Most guys are...I agree. And it's sad that it is. Guys are horny sons'a bit.ches. Now why they say inappropriate things to females utterly astonishes me. I have never said to a girls face " dauum, can I tap dat **** tonight?!" Thats extremely rude and inconsiderate. It does seem like guys are growing up later in life than what it use to be when it comes to respect and morality, but then again, you can also blame it on the female side just as much for the way they dress and act to get the men to like them. Two to tango. Keep looking for the guys that respect you. You might go through alot of jerks to find him, but it'll be worth it. I treat my girl with the respect she deserves as an individual. I call her sexy and all that now, but it's vise-versa, but I always tell her how beautiful and stunning she looks all the time, because she is to me. Hope you find that guy that you want and need. Have a great day!

Answer 4

Are you that starved for attention? You must be fairly young, at least I hope so. Enjoy your looks while you have them. We all have to get old. No matter how beautiful and/or sexy you are, it won't last forever.
BTW, this is pretty common for a lot of women. As much as it can suck sometime, I am sure you derive some flattery from it. Most women do. Are you sure it wouldn't bother you if they stopped altogether?
We both know it would, so SHUT UP!
Men are men, get used to it!

Answer 5

The guys that are calling you this are boys and they don't know how to talk to a lady when they see one. Women should be called and treated like princess'. Women are the beauty of life, the bearer of all children and most guys don't realize this. There stuck in a one tracked mind and won't see this until they are married or with the one they will be with for eternity.

Answer 6

well the guys who call u that are pigs u are prolly a beautiful and gorgeous young lady and u seem like u have a very good heart so if all the guys are after is ur bod don't give them the time of day the should love u for who are

Answer 7

Well, they are being a bit rude. But how on earth are they supposed to say anything about your personality and such without knowing you? When you first meet someone, all you know of them is their appearance. And it sounds like you're hanging around with a bunch of perverts too! "I'd totally do you"?! What kind of punk would say that to a girl? At least you aren't falling for it. Have a nice day!

Answer 8

Most guys can't really communicate with girls unless the girl tells them to. The guys who do call you that just care about your body and not so much your personality or intelligence. If they say those things to you just tell them what to do and they should do it. Just remember, if guys like you they will do what you ask them to do. Plus all guys think of is the outside, not the inside. Just show the guys how you can be beautiful by your personality or just who you are.

Answer 9

God truly must have blessed you for your outer beauty but I'm sure there is an inner beauty that you are longing for a male to find and appreciate in addition to the outer and initial beauty most guys are experiencing.

and i have to say most guys are driven by looks. i have to admit i was too, but was lucky to find a gal who is just as pretty on the inside.

i'm not sure what your age or location, but i wish you luck and best wishes in finding a mate.

you might try at church or at singles gatherings. there is a mate out there for you. try praying to God and tell him exactly what you are looking for. pray with someone else and have them agree with you.

i know a story about a man who prayed for 3 years for a wife and one day at a wedding, she sat down next to him and said, i'm your wife. true story.

good luck.

Answer 10

Your complaining because you want to be called pretty rather than sexy. You have a problem most girls would like. Get over it and thank your blessings.