...do you think Im attractive?

Question

I have a lot of insecurity like thinking Im ugly and fat. Everyone says Im pretty- but I just, want someone to tell me the truth who DOESNT know me...you know?? I also have a lot of issues like thinking Im fat, and part of me screams "HELL NO YOU ARE NOT FAT" but the wannabe model inside me is screaming "HIPPO!!! HIPPY HIPPY HIPPO!!" and well...its altogether awful, so im me, if you wanna....I can send you my pics over there...Im not just fishing for complements so tell me honestly, what you think of my face, if I should have short hair, keep it long- anything to help. <3 thank you so much. You guys online are great!

Answer 1

Insecurity like you describe is extremely unattractive, no matter what you look like on the outside.

Answer 2

Im feeling honest today. I try to avoid answering these sorts of questions as there are plenty of lads and ladies here to offer their opinions. But I just answered a similar question somewhere else and curiosity has got the better of me this time.

Feel free to email your pic to me. My gut tells me you have nothing to worry about at all and are just self concsious (cant spell - sorry) and need a bit of assistance loosing that insecurity. As a model (if you are serious) you are going to have to get yourself a fair bit more comfortable with your body and your look than you seem and I imagine the people of the modelling world dont pull punches when it comes to your look, its a business after all. If you only ever hear good things, its going to be twice as hard when someone tells you something "constructive" or even negative.

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30 mins, no pic =(

hope i didnt offend you ..
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Answer 3

What is interesting is that you mention hippy or hippo which makes me wonder if your question about attractiveness is based on your body type, but you want to send a picture of your face only, one can only then base attractiveness on a face, which is hardly a good way to do that.
Use the mail feature of answers to contact me and I will give u an email address.

Answer 4

You should work on your intentions, and your self esteem. Why depend on others to validate you? It doesn't mater what we think, if you think you are ugly, than my dear in my eyes you are.

Otherwise you are insecure and looking for reassurance, which isn't very attractive either.

The most beautiful people are not plastic barbie dolls, they have charisma that comes from confidence and a great inner being.

Answer 5

Yea send me the pics. I will tell you the truth. ok?

I promise.

I know how you feel. I think I'm one way and then people say I'm crazy and this and that. And its cool to want someone else's perspective. Its a good idea.

So here we go!

Answer 6

DomC is right. No matter what you look like, it's annoying to others when you focus on yourself all the time and whine about it. Cultivating a great personality will make anyone more attractive.

Answer 7

Make a 360 page and post pics on it. Then we can tell you how fat you are!

Answer 8

will wait for your pic but m sure you are pretty and also innoceltly insecured about yourself and you also lack self confidence...

all i can tell you is to join some sport and it'll do wonders to your self confidence,start loving yourself and then see how the world falls at your feet!!

Answer 9

You are probably very pretty but insecure but I don't know because I have to see what you look like first!

Answer 10

If you dare, post your picture on the www.hotornot.com. let the general public judge you.

Let's put it on another spin, attractiveness can be looks, personality, and other area. It is the overall package that can get people/guys hook on you.