I tell my girlfriend that when i see other women around i dont judge them in my head. For example: i dont think they are hot or not or etc... Why is that so hard to believe? I have been with her close to 6 years and to me she is the only one in my head. So yet again, Ladies:
Do you believe me? y or y not
2006-08-16 06:19:38 · 17 answers · asked by Help me Pick my Brain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some extra input after the first 8 answers, when i see the women, yeah if i wanted to i could judge them, but when i do see them i just dont feel like i need to. I have my soulmate and i dont need to judge any other women, that is how i feel.
2006-08-16 06:31:08 · update #1
It is human nature to look at other people and find them attractive or unattractive. You may not desire to sleep with them or be with them but I'm sure you know the difference between good looking and ugly and everyone appreciates an attractive person, male or female.
2006-08-16 06:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is great that you are so into your girl...that is hard to find!! I know what you mean though. I am a woman and I look at other men..but not in a way..that I am thinking man i wonder how he is in bed. I only have my eyes on my man...all the time..other people men or women just blend into the background when you love your partner so much. In the same respect...those may be her insecurities...maybe think of something nice to do for her that would make her feel like she is the only woman on the face of the planet.
2006-08-16 13:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by ebubbles1972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to believe. Every man judges a woman when he looks at her just as women do men. I'm not saying it's a bad thing or that you should be ashamed if you do. It's human nature, there's no getting around that.
2006-08-16 13:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by prtybrneyez1081 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible to believe that. But it is still hard for women to see other beautiful women. the way i see it is just try not to look at them when she is around. I know my BF looks at girls, i just dont want it around me. She probably also thinks that you are judging them because when she sees the other girls she does.
2006-08-16 13:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by lilmissyprissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
:) No. If you're a 100% male, things you mentioned above will not be valid. You don't judge them but you still enjoy the view, don't you? You don't have to judge them, why should you? You only need to enjoy what's in front. Yea, I believe that she's the only one in your head. That will be possible.
2006-08-16 13:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with her for six years and you really love her, then yes, I do believe you. Sort of.
I think maybe you see women and your brain automatically classifies them, but you don't really care how they look, so you don't compare them to your girlfriend. And the reason it's hard to believe is because we're all a little insecure; you just have to get used to it. Sorry.
2006-08-16 13:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by LingXinYi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you are telling me you have never made a comment like "Man she is hot". Even if you are in a committed relationship it is ok to think about others just dont act on it. You girlfriend is just acting on simple fact. Most guys do to think about other girls or at least judge weither they think they are hot or not. Dont fool yourself. You have thought about other girls. Most girls judge weither a guy is hot or not. It is the same. Your girl may think it isnt possible for you not to judge other girls because she herself is judging other guys.
2006-08-16 13:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by catwoman87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is important in relationship. If both of u really love each other, u all must have ur own level of believe in each other. It's not concern with other women believe u or not. Only ur gf need to believe in u & she will if she really loves u.
2006-08-16 13:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by PP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya its a bit difficult to believe cos theres nothing wrong in doing so,even if you are doing it,cos all men are like that,its not that they would have intentions for every other woman but its in there blood to run thru such things in there head when they see a girl...
but its not impossible,and if someone knows you for 6 years would know you better than any of us here!!
2006-08-16 13:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some women do get jealous when a man looks at another woman and if they think of this person they usually say some thing that she don't like
i am not sure i believe you but good luck
2006-08-16 13:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋